February 14, 2012
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Being found guilty of paying for group sex with a minor is not sufficient grounds for education officials in Stockholm to fire a teacher who has refused to quit following his conviction.
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Why would they "accept this"? The bureaucrat must have been one of those male princesses as a kid. You wouldn't want to hurt his feelings by firing him. Also, teaching is his life dream, Sweden should never take that away from him. So he has sold a couple minors as prostitutes, surely that shouldn't bar him from working with them and being employed by a government agency. Maybe he can even steer some of the poor performers (in school) to a life of prostitution. It pays the bills and best of all its tax free!!
Stop screwing with kids minds (and futures). Parents should get to vote on this and then see if he can keep his job. With some of the stories I have read (not just in Sweden but everywhere) I will hate to see what today's kids look like in 25 years.
He has all the right to do whatever he wants in his private life, besides one can like it or not, and his private/social activities has nothing to do with his performance as a teacher. I support his position to not reason to get fired from school.
Not the state nor private organizations can get involved nor dictate the private life of people. Basic natural law.
Dude ..... are you a rapist sympathiser?
I want this guy to carry on....
committing sex offences involving a minor is incompatible with the role of a teacher
"""'can't be fired' "" " Ooh my God ! why?
""Teacher who paid for sex ((((((minors))))))))!!!????"""'can't be fired' "" "
strange people
Rick: I clean toilets. I am not happy with your comments. I would like to forget them. However, despite my will I think that once in my job there will always be something reminding me your name and what you have in your own head.
"...this is the thing which europe teaches all people on the name of women rights. if fully have sympathy with all those who rape young girls cos they deserve that".
Yes, here in Europe we should put a whole tent over the women and girls, sell them for 15-20 cows, marry them as young as 9 years old with relatives or "business" partners, beat the crap out of them when they are disobeying the men.
His a bad parson anyway but the reason the punishment isent so high is the only crime he commited was buying sex. the whole minor thing unless the girls was under the age of 15 is not right.
It is an extremely critical role of society that currently is left wildly unchecked. We as a society in trust those teachers with the safety of passing on knowledge. These people should be held in very high regard.
But it is because of people like this guy who bring what it is to be a teacher in to disrepute. Where is the guy's honor?
The fault here is not that they can't fire him, it's that he qualified in the first place.
Most of you commenting are total prudes and fell for the shock-value Aftonbladetesque headline.
(I'd personally go even further and say that the law against buying sex is too prudish for a modern society, but that opens up a whole other can of worms).
I can't believe it's 2009 and people still think it makes you a bad person to participate in orgies. We are not living in the Middle Ages, you know. The world is not flat, sex isn't evil.
Unfortunately, Kaethar makes sense
I have some issues with the age/sex limit being at 15, but the law says so, so i will have to accept it
I tried to think of the issue like that: If i was still in Greece, what would have happened?
And the answer is nothing!!!
In Greece, it is perfectly legal to *buy* sex services (it is somehow illegal though to sell them). So, if someone (like the teacher mentioned here) was *buying* sex services from an adult (as the law says), no one could charge him with anything or demand that he is fired
Unfortunately, the problem here lies solely on the parents (and yes i am a parent myself). If a 15 year old girl (adult by law) believes that it is perfectly ok to sell sex as a service, then something is seriously wrong!
If i had to put value on the blame, i would say: Teacher who buys sex services 1%, 15-yrs old girl who sells sex services, 99%
What annoys me is a child being a prostitute. I really do have an issue with anyone who uses a child for prostitution and believe it should be stamped out with all possible force. I pesoally would support execution of anyone using a child prostitute regardless of excuse offered, as I consider people like that to be predatory paedophiles.
I don't care what the age of consent is in this matter. To me a 15 year old is exactly that, a 15 year old. If two 15 year olds have sex, I will not be comfortable with that, but it is their business, their bodies and they will have to live with any potential consequences.
However no 15 year old should be in prostitution and no adult should be allowed near a 15 year old prostitute. Only an adult who is a paedophile will even be sexually interested in a 15 year old.
This 'teacher' got away with a lighter sentence quote
The teacher was convicted for purchasing sexual services and fined 2,500 kronor. During the trial, he was able to convince the court that he didn't know one of the girls from whom he purchased sex was 17-years-old, and thus was able to avoid being convicted for a more serious charge.
The judge was conned by this guy who clearly has a taste for young girls.
He likes gang bangs and who knows what other perverted sex acts.
It is not just the fact that he purchased sex but everything else behind it that makes him totally unsuitable to be in charge of children
He was convicted of buying sex - which is illegal although selling it is not - but the girl was well over the Swedish age of consent of 15. The prosecution attempted to have him convicted for child prostitution charges - but these were thrown out as the girl was 17. There is nothing in the reports that says he knew this girl or taught her - in fact the prosecution could not proove that he knew she was under 18.
Although someone who visits prsotitutes is not a good role model for a teacher - it is hard to see what legal basis they would have for sacking him - possibly for having a criminal record
How can someone in their right state of mind support what he did? And support that he gets to keep his job? How very apalling.. yuck.. my whole body is shivering. Jeeze some people are disgusting. But the absolutely worst thing I've read is that.. alien, who said that girls who dress sexy have deserves to be raped. Can one of the maniacs with that opinion please take me through that thought process, if there was one. For crying out loud how can you honestly think that it is ever OK to rape? Omg I want you dead.
OK, fine, teenages are hot, really really hot, maybe more so in Scand, I don't really know, but that doesn't make the age difference any less wrong or disgusting.
It's your right to be disgusted, of course, and if you are, I suggest you not look. I bet there are a lot of happily married same-age heterosexual couples in this city who do things in bed you'd rather not think about or watch.
Also: a pedophile is one who desires sex with children. A person whose reproductive apparatus has matured is not, in that sense, a child.
Forcible rape is a crime of assault, and has nothing at all to do with the story here.
Since it isn't obvious I sad pedophile without using the dictionary's defenition of it.. jeeze.. When a 50+er has sex with a 17 year old.. I call him a pedophile. I don't care what the dictonary says when the age difference is that HUGE.
I agree comepletely with your last statement but since you didn't read all comments, or forget the ones I was talking and thought that I call this rape I'll quote them for you so that there hopefully will be no more unfortunate misunderstandings.
#4
"when i see the young teens acting so seducting all around the city..." "thier parents dress thier daughters in such a sexy dresses that i see in tunalbana all people watch them with hungry eyes even older..." "i fully have sympathy with all those who rape young girls cos they deserve that."
THAT was what I was talking about. But I have a feeling you agree with this guy (if you didn't his comment would have been so digusting, strange, scary and.. "off" to you that you wouldn't forget it any time soon) so maybe you can take me through that thought process (IF you agree with that).
These comment re rape seem to hark back to the old idea that "there is no such thing as rape because a girl can run faster with her skirt up than a man can with his trousers down."
There seems to be some these Neanderthals lurking in The Local
Agreed.
@ TL
I think it would help a lot if you guys could do a "yahoo answers" and let us (me.. sigh) review what we have written with a spell checker before we submit what we've written or some way to add or remove just a couple of words that should or shouldn't be there fter posting, a minor edit option or whatever, if that is possible. Thanks in advance.
No, I did read those comments, but they were a hijack, that's why I said they had nothing to do with the story. And it's not that I agree with that guy, not at all, it's that he's an idiot, and some people, it's a waste of time to argue with. He's not going to convince anyone. There are laws about forcible rape, and they aren't going to change to reflect that kind of dipshittery.
As for the actual issue, what do you mean by "wrong, socially speaking"? Do you mean it is widely held, in this society, to be wrong? I'd agree with that, and say that social mores are often not based on much except a desire to look in judgment on people and feel superior to them. How can we be in, if there is no outside (someone said). I'm pretty sure it's normal to desire young sex partners. That would explain why men go through such agony over male pattern baldness, for one thing. Youth and vitality go together, there's nothing strange about desiring it.
I knew someone, about 30 years ago, who was about 40, and introduced me to his 17 year old girlfriend -- they lamented that it was sometimes hard for her to get admitted to clubs when they went out, but sometimes they got in. Three or four years later they were still together and announced they were getting married. Then I heard from someone that the reason they had waited was that now they didn't have to get her parents' permission. So she wasn't 17 in the first place.
Whatever her age when I first saw her, anyone looking at her would have seen a woman. A young woman, sure, but not a little girl playing with dollies. And the guy was not some kind of pervert exploiter, they did get married. People mature at different rates. Reality is irregular and wiggly.
I knew another guy who in his early 30s took up with a woman 10 or 15 years older than he was. I know two other people who have been together for at least 20 years, whose ages are 20 years apart.
Of course the standard model is to mate with someone of the opposite sex and same age as yourself, preferably your high school sweetheart, get married, have kids, and live on a tree-lined street in the 'burbs. But not everyone fits into that model, and not everyone who doesn't is necessarily a creep. Let's accept that there's a lot we don't know about a situation reported in the papers, and not be too quick to judge.
2. Prostitution is ILLEGAL if you are doing the buying.
I think I got this correct.
So what I cannot figure out is - HOW DOES THE SELLER GET PAID?
Right. In fact, it should be illegal to show them to anybody. If you don't trust the person not to call the police, don't show your junk. Choose your doctor very carefully.
THAT'S you argument to have sex with teenagers when you're 50+? Because non sentient animals theoretically would do it?!! You argue that we think he's disgusting and should be fired for no other reason than having sex?! I'm not sure whether I'd laugh at you or scream to your face or shoot myself to get rid of the intellectual pain you've caused me. I'm embarrassed since we're both humans and because our brains work the same.. just wow. Now I'm gonna have some fun:
1. An act is NOT ok because a very stupid animal, incapable of thinking a few days ahead; planning, understanding, too stupid to create some form of advanced language.
2. We do not think he is disgusting because he had sex, everybody does. We're disgusted because he had sex with someone who could be his grandchild.
3. Those "few genes" that are different between us and the chimpanzees are the differences between living in the jungle not knowing/understanding that you're alive and walking on the moon.
4. "Where does morality come from? If there is no god and no ultimate source for right or wrong why should prostitution and sex be a crime? Separation of church and state dictates that "victimless" crimes should not be province of the state to regulate."
By that definition nothing is immoral because of the same reason; there is no god and no meaning to life; no universal right and wrongs. By that definition it is not wrong to: murder, rape, steal, kidnap, torture or burn someone's house to the ground.
Morals and ethics are highly subjective and many are shared by almost all humans; according to the vast majority in the western world it is morally wrong for someone to have sex with someone who could be his or hers grandchild.. at least in the Nordic countries, I actually have some doubts about the US for example. If you don't think that sex should be a crime then why are you against rape and child molesters? That's sex too but you want that to be illegal; how very hypocritical of you.
What if the man in the rape case had only an open zipper and not his pants down?
i was mildly interested in this topic until i saw your comments. YOU disgust ME! you are the sort of person who back in the day would have been nurning witches and stoning people for different. i bet you would have loved slavery too. get off your high horse of judgment before you fall off and break you stupid fat head.
ok, now i will be civil. i just had to get that off my chest.
firstly, your 'argument' about what is and is not socially right is simply retarded. a few decades ago it was socially accepted to think gays should be killed. a little further back it was ok to own slaves. and a little further behind that it was ok all across europe to marry and have sex with people of ANY age. to think that what is socially acceptable is the only correct way is just plain stupid.
so please do not hide your own personal bigotry and narrow minded world view behind the facade of 'socially acceptable' because everyone can see right through it.
secondly, a peadophile is, as someone already explained to you, a person who wants sex with a child where 'child' is someone who has not developed physically. what you are talking about is an ephebophile. that is to say someone who is (but is not limited to being) attracted to someone in the 15-19 age range. biologically speaking it is NATURAL for people to desire someone of that age because biologically speaking they ARE adults and are sexually mature physically if not mentally. you cannot control who you are attracted to, what nonsense world do you live in?!
thirdly, your next 'argument' (i cant even say that with a straight face) is that it is wrong for someone considerably older to have sex with someone younger. do i need to start listing the names of all the many famous celebrities who regularly date younger people? from jack nicholson to demi moore there are MANY people who do this. famous as well as unfamous. as maxx said, people mature at different ages and want different things. men tend towards wanting younger women and women tend towards wanting older men. where is the problem in this? are you an old woman who is jealous of young girls? or an old man who cannot get younger women? or were you just touched up by someone when you were young? get a grip you clown, you even admitted that teenagers are 'really really hot' yourself.
fourthly, stop using the word 'we' when talking about your ridiculous opinions. you do not speak for me and you do not speak for society in general. you are no better than the idiot who thinks raping young girls is ok, or the moron who thinks everyone should be completely covered up all the time. you are both on the fringes of this liberal society and are in the MINORITY.