February 14, 2012
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Sweden and its Nordic neighbours have been slammed by human rights group Amnesty International for failing to combat sexual violence, a new report shows.
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For to long Swedes have been ignoring a major problem in there midst.
Ther is serious problems regarding sexual assault in Sverige that do need to be tackled.
Rape does need to be treated as a serious crime which in Sverige at present it clearly is not.
The police do not take it seriously, neither do the prosecturots, judges, advocats or politicians.
Personally, I would rather have equal justice, where sex crimes are regularly reported and harshly punished, than equal salaries. To me, that's more important. That is true recognition of a woman's value, not some unisex paycheck.
Generally, I think the Swedish legal system is not logically coherent when it comes to sex related crimes. For instance, they have the law against paying for sex but a report released in 2009 showed that few actually got prosecuted.
Shame.
This is not a result of greater equality it is as a result of resistance to it.
The difference between drunk driving and being sexually assaulted while passed out is clear.
1) Getting into a car while drunk is your choice.
2) Having sex while passed out is not your choice. It is the choice of the person not passed out and it is a crime in most other countries. Whether or not the person gave permission before passing out. BTW: Necrophilia is also illegal.
As to the pig status. It is not legal to physically assault someone who behaves as a pig. So why should it be legal to sexually assault?
The difference here is passed out not just drunk .. here your analogy of driving fits. if you are so drunk you don't know if the person your are sticking it to is passed out or not then it's your fault ..
I'm not in favor of drinking till passed out but I don't think the punishment should be rape for men or women .. There have been a few reported rapes by men on men recently in the Stockholm area ..
@Kaethar .. I'm not an expert here i understand that sex that is not excited ( as in being passed out ) will cause tearing and can be detected in a rape kit .. as seen on TV .. to call this "Nordic" law is wrong. as pointed out here the laws are not uniform ..
Loss of memory "blackouts" is uncommon and mostly the case with older alcoholics. Not remembering what happened in young adults isn't normal unless you are passed out or drugged ( loss of memory is common with on date rape drug ) which qualifies.
I would say that if an adult male is seriously worried about being charged with rape because he has sex with near passed out women he should rethink his life...
The problem with these cases is often one of evidence. Usually there are only two witnesses, the accused and the victim. The victim was usually drunk, and often the accused too. The poor judge has to make a life changing decision based on the evidence of a couple of drunks.
Most judges feel these cases do not meet the "beyond reasonable doubt" standard and acquit, they prefer the old legal maxim "Better ten guilty men go free, than an innocent man go to prison." Interestingly, the Nazi legal system had it the otherway around. Once again Swedish polititians are interfering with the law by seeking to alter this sacred legal safeguard in favour of the alleged victim. This will shift the burden of proof onto the accused who may soon have to prove he did not rape, rather than the victim having to proove that he did.
Sweden is not Nigeria
The corruption in Sweden is not like that in Russia
Sweden, in that matter at least, is worse than countries like those two above. There s no excuse for the legal system, for the police and for Swedish politicians.
However, like others have said, it's often just the accuser and the accused and it's more often than not, hard to tell if 1 or both were really drunk and did something stupid then regretted it or if it was a case where one party took advantage or someone being passed out or near there.
You have to take some responsibilty for yourself as well. Rape is rape no matter if you're sh#tfaced or sober. Having said that though, people need to be smart about the situations théy place themselves in.
If your plan is to go out and binge drink until you pass out, which for alot of swedes that's the plan every weekend, do it at a trusted friends' house, not at some random party or the pub. Rape could still happen but the chances are less if you're around people that care.
@Jamis
I agree with you that crime statistics should be reported 100% of the time. People have the right to know what's going on in their communities and the politicians need to be honest about it. It doesn't matter if it's swedes or "swedish citizens" doing it, the good people in the community should have that knowledge so that crime can be minimized. Different programs might be more useful in deterring one group vs. another.
I'm not sure about your comment that most rapes are committed by foriengers. Most of the time people are raped by people that they know, a friend, family member or acquaintance, not by strangers. Seeing how, that at least here in Sweden, natives don't mix too often with immigrants in social settings your statement may not be true.
So the police is protecting all these foreigners. The legal system too.
Man, you re way out of it, you don t know what you re talking about.
So Swedish don t like the foreigners, but when they commit crimes like rape, well, they suddenly become more...
You, funny guy!!!
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How come the police is not acting furiously against them?
In Romania, where I live, jail really is something to be afraid of. Really.
So, those who commit rape has psychological problem 100%. And those who are not Romanians...man, they know their life as men is in danger if they, somehow, must spend time in jail here for such a crime.
It's very disturbing that these basic issues - long settled in more civilized part of the world - continue to mystify Swedes.
Not to minimize the problem but the fact that Amnesty International is concentrating on scandianvian countries rather than other places in the world where this is a genuine serious problem indicates that A.I. is a little off base in their priorities IMHO.
But there is one glaring stat which is no doubt whatsoever - 95% of all violent crimes are committed by men. I wonder why that is - is there some sort of socio-cultural explanation?
So just as most immigrants are not criminals, neither are most men - even if they are over-represented as a group.
period
if the laws were tougher, it would deter many.
why should hard working tax dollars even go to keep this scum alive after conviction?
the trauma faced by rape victims FAR OUTWEIGHS a few months or years in a cushy scandinavian prison the rapist gets.
there have been 2 rapes in örebro the last 2 months and at least 3 reported attempted rapes. its sickening and needs to be dealt with..........YESTERDAY!!!
"the trauma faced by rape victims FAR OUTWEIGHS a few months or years in a cushy scandinavian prison the rapist gets."
Amen!
The victims can be affected with lifelong trauma. Many victims of sexual abuse become persons with lifelong sexual problems which problems can destroy their ability to have a functional family, so husband and kids will suffer...
Many victims of rape commit suicide.
These are facts!
@Uncle
Man, you just show a predisposition to life a dangerous life. Vivere pericolosamente. You just said things nobody are allowed to say. Run for your life! Feminist are now after you!
Or you just can say you really wanted to say that 95% of all inventions are made by women.
i think you misread or i poorly worded my comments.
i totally agree with you and thats what i was trying to say.
or did u mean 'amen' in a good way?
either way, i think were on the same page ;)
there is a whole lot of THE PUNISHMEN SHOULD FIT THE CRIME talk in law but it rarely seems to be the case in murder / rape / sexual assault which is a real shame.
So you mean that its my fault, if I get raped after a party, where I (of course dressed like a 'sexy dream') danced 'provocative'? I forgot to make a risk calculation before I went out... Do you also mean that it is my fault that a man can get an illusion that a women only exist to fulfil his 'wishes'?...Maybe we should apply your 'Victim blaming' concept even on other crimes? In that way every victim will be less victim (=partly responsible for the crime) and every guilty person will be less guilty...Interesting..hmm...
In Sweden around 45 % of the convicted are foreigns and ONLY 20 % of the reported rapes resulted in a court trial in 2008, so there are many rapists walking free... For me as a woman its not important,from which country this sick men come from...Foreigners, swedes or utopian people, who cares? Put them in jail and if the perpetrator commit ones more a sexual crime, then chemical/ physical castration.
Unfortunately the view of a rape is still influenced by the perception of norms for women's and men's sexual behaviour and the discriminatory attitudes against drunken women, women from specific countries,homeless women etc are also barriers to better legal protection/law. I am so bored ...As a woman you have to be careful, avoid strangers, drink carefully, avoid outgoing etc. Do I also have to dress me up as a scarecrow, train my dog to kill men and get a firearm permit?! Why do this men exist?
Speaking about stupidity of some women who are heavy drinkers or drug addicted has nothing to do with the real victims of the rapist.
Not to forget, there s a lot of fake claims of rape between those kind of persons. A LOT OF.
Anyway, a rapist must receive a punishment which can fit the dimension of the crime he did.
@Sjayna
"As a woman you have to be careful, avoid strangers, drink carefully"
Don t worry, as a man you must be careful too. There s a lot of no go areas in EU towns. Being a man doesn t help much if you go to Barcelona in a Real Madrid T-shirt...
This is exactly what I am talking about - Alex. The massive bashing of men as a general group is A-OK! It is totally acceptable and encouraged. However answering to the bashers is a serious offense!
OK. Just to have a comment here.
Men are SoB's who do not want anything, but to rape the smart and free women, who shall not be careful, but free and wild. Men shall be also castrated if there is a shadow of doubt that they never planned to call the next morning and/or the female has any regrets the morning after.
Men shall always post/say whatever the free females deem to be acceptable. Men are also criminals, warmongers and if women would rule the world, there would be peace and love all around the world.
UUff. Hope I satisfied the moderator here .
Well, they need to appear to be impartial, and that means that they have to point out problems everywhere, not just where the problems are worst. Moreover, you cannot effectively collect NGO funding from rich countries unless you also point out some near-shore problems. I would assume most of AI's private donors are women, so they obviously need to find some new appeal every now and then.
I'm all for preventing sexual violence, but some of the ideas floating around, such as not requiring the same confidence level of proof in sexual crimes as in other crimes, sounds pretty scary. It actually sounds like I could be convicted on loose grounds simply because I am a man, and I think this is totally counter-productive to AI's stated goals.
I'm also rather sceptic about findings like "only between 2 and 10 % of crimes are reported". How do you know?
correction - 96%.
80% of all crimes - http://www.bra.se/extra/pod/?action=pod_show&id=56&module_instance=15
"So just as most immigrants are not criminals, neither are most men - even if they are over-represented as a group."
I would suggest castration, but that would upset the liberal elite. In NY city a few years ago they had convicted rapists pick up trash in the Park, and sent their names to reporters. These reporters than came down and tried to ask them questions.
Up the punishment, up the protection for victims, but more importantly prevention is better than cure. Try to figure out a way to stop these animals from falling into darkness. There has to be a way.
And Sweden is developing an international reputation for this inverted morality. .
A raped woman with drugproblems is not a REAL victim?!!! So its ok to rape a heavily drunken woman. Are you serious?! Have you made research on this subject or is these only your own vague ideas about drug addicted women and sexuall crimes?
I am SURE that there are only few women, who come with false claims. The problem is opposite, the women DON'T report the crimes to police. In Nordic countries surveys and prevalence studies shows that the unreported cases seems to be very high,as in Finland. Why don't the women report? Because they feel ashamed and blame themselves. Why? The negative attituds around them, the view of women's sexual behaviour, how woman should act, talk etc, all these things prevent easily the raped woman to make a report...
Some of the 'talented men' here: Your insinuations and attituds only undermine womens possibility to get better protection...The man who live in the illusion that the revenge wanting women would make a rape report about the men who 'never planned to call'...Haha...sorry, but why would any woman spend time and energy...No man is worth that.
Ungle, unfortunately not you, but your sentences are approaching the 'Holy Truth'.
"A raped woman with drug problems is not a REAL victim?!!! So its ok to rape a heavily drunken woman."
I didn t say that. I just said that reality shows us we first must take care of ourselves.
You know:
"Open your eyes girl, and you ll be safer! Think girl! Do not act stupid!"
It is called common sense.
" Some of the 'talented men' here: Your insinuations and attitudes only undermine women possibility to get better protection..."
I hope is not the case, I don t think anyone here want that. Read again what people wrote here.
"The problem is opposite, the women DON'T report the crimes to police."
Correct, I agree with you.
This really is a big problem.
"No man is worth..." Could you say that when you were 18 years old?
I hope your husband don t read what you write here :-)
Please, read what people write here, before you try to say something!
Peace!!!
I have had a severe problem with a woman, and I posted it in the discussion section of The Local. From many in that area, I was met with scorn and derision which showed to me the level of understanding, compassion and attitude of those persons. I believe, the husband mentioned in my web page, used his position or company legal people to have the Local remove all discussion and ban me from posting. Of course I can easily create a dozen Gmail addresses, reregister and post again, which is what I am doing right now. So have a look at my page. It is all true, and that upsets these bad people. They believe they have the right to go around hurting others without suffering any consequences. Of course, this points back to the attitude regarding rape etc in Sweden. With people that do not care about others and try to stop them or have the laws changed, it will stay as it is.
http://vickyroos.com.au/index.html
The argument is not about the percentage of women who false report people, but the definition of Amnesty there, that ALLOWS such a reporting. Sweden is a leading country in rape reports in Europe. Not because there are more rape cases, but because of fuzzy definitions and confusion in the legal system.
Some "talented" women here suggested that sometimes the fear could be so strong that woman cooperates w/o any sign of disagreement. This fear could come from simple assumption of the woman that the man dangerous. How is that even in theory provable? "Oh, he was black...so I assumed... better to cooperate..." I mean seriously?
And again - "no man is worth it"... You are just full of yourself, ain't you? You must be some sort of super model with a PhD degree and TV success. Get off the high tree you have climbed on!
Look at the behaviour of 40 y/o unmarried women. Look at the real hunt for rich people. Look at the suicidal 17 y/o with crushed hearts.
I knew women whose sole purpose of life was to find a very specific man and then hold to him, even if he is violent or drunk. In 80% of the world a woman who did not get married early, is a walking dead, who cannot provide for herself and cannot have kids. Sweden is a magical island of happiness for women compared to the rest of the world and that is good, but get into reality mode for a second there.
In Western feminist society nobody knows anymore what is rape and what is not. Even judges have problems to find a ruling after days of consultation in certain cases.
No sign of violence. The woman invites him in her own home, both are drunk, have sex, and after some days or even weeks she regrets and is accusing him for rape. - What shall a judge do in this case? A typical he says, she says...
Another problem are false rape allegations, crimes which never took place except in the fantasy of a female who is in a bad mood.
Women are getting away with lenient sentences in case of false rape/sexual harassment accusations or are even free to offer ther sexual services against payment. Only the man who pays for sex, even in case he was drunk and she was not, will be punished - ridiculous.
It is difficult to understand, why only the man should be kept responsible and be punished in case of differences between men and women regarding a sexual relationship.
If women want to be treated as equals, they should also be kept responsible as equals for bad behavior and wrongdoings.
Man, please, show a little understanding. Don t be so specific. The truth hurts. Look here: "no man is worth it" - Denial phase
How do you think she could got this ? Well, classics calls this ANABASIS (Xenofon).
" Look at the behaviour of 40 y/o unmarried women"
Some of them are married and still...
BUT ALL THESE COULD BE APPLIED TO MEN AS WELL.
About the women around the world...WHOSE fault is the worldwide situation of women? Millions of women who have to stay with their drunken, violent, imbecile men ...even worse, have to get married with this mentally ill persons! Fortunately this will also be changed, even if slowly.
Alex Coman, the modern young women can easily feel,say,spell: 'No man is worth...' I don't own 'a husband', but anyway, why would he care about the 'NO MAN IS WORTH TO SPEND ENERGY/TIME making a false crime report'. Don't you agree? The truth hurts? Personally I prefer ruthless honesty.
VickyRoos, You hang out one woman, I can hang out thousands of rapists/bad men and they are only from one country... Whats your point?!
"Millions of women who have to stay with their drunken, violent," correct, this is a tragedy, but, you follow: "imbecile men" what??? This can be only applied for men??? Is this just a male characteristic? This is where you start to fabulate.
Then is worse to come:" ...even worse, have to get married with this mentally ill persons!" Mentally ill, like depression or hysteric??? :-)
"The modern young women can easily feel,say,spell: 'No man is worth..."
I don t know what to say about this: delusional, or stupidity? Somehow a modern woman is not a woman anymore?
I say: a woman is worthing...
"NO MAN IS WORTH TO SPEND ENERGY/TIME making a false crime report'. "
I agree, but I am a clinic mentally sane male, married, having kids, graduate of 2 univ, and so on. So don t tell me that, tell that to a woman in love.
Somehow you get near to the scientific facts: there are much more men with mental disability than women.
But, if a woman act crazy from time to time, THIS IS NO SIGN OF MENTAL ILLNESS. IN FACT, THIS IS NORMAL.
FOR REAL!
Peace!
Notice, these is my definitions in THIS CONTEXT/diskussion ... Imbecile man = a mentally and moraly weak person. A mentally ill man = suffers of behavioural/psychological problems...
The meaning 'No man is worth..' only refers to false crime report...So some men are still qualified for the word 'worth'...
'Crazy' acting woman = A woman with healthy mind signing that something is BADLY wrong. Quite natural and normal behaviour as you wrote. The symptoms are highly recognizable.
'Crazy' acting man = A man with sick health of the mind, the mental processes such as reasoning are defekted. Abnormal behaviour, not easy to recognize.
Ok, I give up...You are right.. There are 'women in love, crying after the man who never planned to call, turning into a rewenge hunting she-wolf'....Many? NO, like needles in a haystack, as I wrote before.
Err, 'women in love, crying after the man who never planned to call, turning into a rewenge hunting she-wolf'....Many?
I don t know how many are in that situation.
Not only women, men act stupid as well in that situation.
C mon, you re a post-modern woman, I expected you to say that.
Peace!
In fact Finnish law didn't even have crime called rape until few years ago. The law had a crime called forced intercourse which in ordinary language was usually called as a rape. When the law changed few years back the idea was to modernize the language by calling it rape and to have three types rapes (mild, normal and aggrevated rape) defined in similar way as many other crimes are defined with three versions. Some women organizations opposed this strongly by emotionally appealing and saying that there is no such thing as mild rape and for this reason the mild rape was replaced with a crime which was called different name, to please the women -- and which caused this mess.
But I think that women organizations use rape and violence againsts women as some kind of politic weapon by exaggerating the effects, belittling the role of women as aggressors and by having double standards. For example, if man and woman have sex and both are equally intoxinated, they think man should be convicted of rape if woman regrets afterwards -- but if man regrets afterwards, woman should not be convicted of rape.