May 26, 2012
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Sweden's National Agency for Education (Skolverket) has criticized a slew of ready-made programmes used by municipalities to combat bullying, arguing that they may even make the problem worse.
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On another level, bullies may arise from households where they are themselves bullied: they can't vent their anger on those who bully them because they're usually weaker (otherwise the bullying wouldn't work), so they turn around and bully someone weaker than them in turn.
Whatever... the issue is much too complex to be effectively solved with ready-made solutions.
Teaching starts at home. Empathy is key like Swed.Gurl says.
So question is ......
Parents responsibility ? Schools responsibility?
Parents need to take responsibility.
— John Taylor Gatto
Along with the fascist notion of forcing kids into government schools, without an option for home schooling or true private schools existing, then the state has an obligation to protect the kids forced into their institutions.
You are saying that the bullying education should begin with the parents. I take it you mean - the parents of bullies, since the parents of sweet and soft kids are usually do not bear responsibility, but are indirectly the victims of bullies.
Do you even realise how little bullies' parents care about their kids behavior? Many of them are pure lowlifes, others on the contrary - rich and cold. Some others think that their kids are strong and cool and popular and therefore will not do anything. You cannot change people. It is like you cannot avoid rape by convincing the rapists that raping is not very good. They KNOW that.
@Swedesmith
I was in a school where victims of bullying, who became violent, drew even more attention and it became group entertainment to hold these victims on constant defence. The problem is not physical bullying, but mental. Verbal and electronic hunt by tens of people of one victim. What martial arts could help here?
Read a bit info on psychologists suggestions. The main line is to teach kids to make fun of themselves and peacefully settle the first attempts of bullying by whether directly saying "Listen, I do not like that you say that" or "Why would you say that?" (for younger ages - the exposure of bullying makes it uncomfortable to the bully. And sarcastically agreeing with the bully in the later ages: "Yep, I am slow indeed" or "Thank you for saying that". It defuses the attention.
It's not that I don't agree with you, but I do not believe any anti-bullying campaign is going to turn the world into a beautiful place filled with butterflies and unicorns. It won't hurt to try but, the truth is, there will always be bullies. I believe that it is every parent's responsibility to not only discourage their children not to be bullies but to also teach them how to handle being bullied.
When I was in school, I was taunted by a bully constantly for a couple of weeks. I tried every de-escalation technique that I could think of...ignoring him, agreeing with him, asking him to please stop, etc. Nothing worked. So, I punched him in the nose and, for good measure, kicked him in the nuts. He never bothered me again.
I can't say that violence is right, but in my case it worked.