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Swedes have heart; ’till death don’t they part.

Tuesday, May 10th, 2011

30 Swedes die per year waiting in vain for an organ. According to the Swedish News Agency Swedes are among the lousiest in Europe to donate organs. (article in Swedish from another publication)

Spain topped the list at 34 donors per million while Swedes were at a miserly 14.

I’m a little surprised by the data since it seems the willingness to donate blood, plasma or platelets seems rather gung ho. And I don’t know Swedes to be too superstitious or burdened by medical fears or taboos.
svensk donor

On the other hand, there aren’t many public drives to encourage donors. In Massachusetts when I got (yes, a very long time ago) and renewed my driver’s license I was asked if I wanted to be a donor and the sticker was attached to the license (not sure if they still offer this.) Since the best donors are often traffic victims it seems the best place to find a healthy and only slightly used organ.
donor

Perhaps a similar campaign would bring up donor numbers in Sweden.

Here’s the link to the donation registry of Sweden. I just signed up.

I know that if I go unexpectedly and there’s anything spare in/on me that can save a life –feel free to pass it on.

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Swedish elections: pre-voting and political messages

Thursday, September 2nd, 2010

Voting in the 2010 Swedish elections opened up to pre-voting yesterday. I like this idea of having nearly 3 weeks to get to the polls to vote. No need to wait until election day. (find where you can pre-vote here)

And election polls aren’t just fuddy-duddy municipal buildings any more. Pre-voting stations are open in shopping malls and gallerias, like the swanky Västermalm Galleria on Kungsholmen, in addition to the traditional venues like libraries and schools

I’ve been thinking of voting early to get it done. We’re clear since our voting cards arrived arrived last week.
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And unlike your average Swede, I am not secretive about my vote. I’ve only ever voted right-wing here. Ironic when I can get screamed at for being part of the “Liberal Elite” (which is left-wing for any Swedes not sure of what that means.) But I’m still not sure which party or parties (could be different for the local, county and national elections) I’m going to submit my vote for yet.

As for the Swedes being secretive about their vote. It’s ingrained into the polite-manner fabric of Swedish society that you need never reveal your vote. I have even heard of spouses not revealing their vote to one another.

One other Swedish (and maybe it’s European in general) cultural element that I cannot align with is the idea of pay day (it’s the 25th of the month) being a time to let loose and party. I do understand that when a seeming windfall appears in your bank account it feels like the right time to go out and enjoy it. But I’m very confused by glorifying it in the political campaign message below used by the Moderate Party (Sweden’s closest version of the Republican Party).
The text Den 25:E Bara en av många anledningar till varfor fler ska ha ett jobb. rough translation: The 25th. Only one of many reasons to why more people should have a job.
nya moderaterna 25

Obviously it promotes the idea that people who have jobs (Sweden is trying to create jobs and the right-wing Alliance wants to point out that jobs have been created due to the ROT and RUT (tax breaks on the labor costs of construction/home improvement and household services) get the benefits of able to party like it’s payday.

But it does go against the core financial values of a conservative party, namely prudent budgeting and not wild binge spending. They are trying to modernize their image, they’re the “New” Moderates now after all. Or maybe they’re just trying to attract the working class with a stereotype?

I will hold off a bit longer on my pre-vote. It might end up being a straight out vote on the 19th.

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Twelfth night, 13th day and 3 kings: Amen

Wednesday, January 6th, 2010

The reality that work starts again on Thursday (7 Jan) is painfully sinking in.  I’ve done better than some; the ones who went back to work this past Monday (4 Jan) or the poor schleps who had to work the weekdays aka mellandagarna,  the “between days” literally between xmas and  new year’s,  but I am not as fortunate as those who won’t clock in again until next Monday (11 Jan.)

Christmas season isn’t really over in Sweden yet. Tomorrow, Wednesday, is Trettondedag Jul, the day many other European countries call some variety of “Three King’s Day” of the Christian Epiphany persuasion which many orthodox Christian faiths consider true Christmas.

Did you follow all that?  However you slice it,  Trettondedag jul is  a red day –a colorful Swedish way to say it’s a pubic holiday.

Now if there wasn’t already enough  controversy (well, mostly in the US) mixed up with the xmas holiday i.e. what to call it and associated paraphernalia,  why to celebrate it, who stole it from whom and even when it is,  it appears a homegrown controversy has sprung up in Sweden too.

As it were, most of Sweden’s public holidays are religiously based. Of late, there are more voices calling for greater distance between church and state holidays. The Local’s article even describes a proposal to allow each employee to designate his or her own “holidays” (Isn’t that what vacation days are for?)

Now I don’t know if I agree with a proposal to individualize public holidays (kind of takes away the public value) but I can fully sympathize with the sentiment to reduce the religious affiliation to pubic holidays.  Giving Sweden a National Day and cutting out the second day of Pingst, the Pentecost was a great move.

But I think I want to keep Trettondedagn, it stretches Christmas to nearly mid January and I have become pretty fond of this midwinter break. So back to work on Thursday it is.

Good thing I am taking Friday off.

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Stockholm Christmas: Jul is lit

Sunday, November 29th, 2009

There’s a great irony involved with Swedish Christmas and Christianity. Swedes use the pagan word –JUL or Yule in English– and yet despite there being very little religion in the daily lives of Swedes, nearly everything about Christmas is more Christian than my Boston Christmases.

Christmas in Stockholm officially started this weekend. The season always kicks off in line with the First Sunday of the  Advent. So many homes had jumped the gun on Saturday with all their lights up and lit.

Lights are nearly always “white” (no multi color bulbs and definitely no blinking lights ) in Sweden and candle “trees” in windows or advent stars are pretty much all you’ll see.  This window is about as stereotypical as you can get.

Swedish windows

I have joked for years that one of these Christmases I might just go Griswold on the house. It probably won’t happen, but boy would it be fun to have a spread of the tackiest light displays ever seen this side of Stockholm.

Griswold Christmas

It won’t happen this year. I think we have one star and one functioning candle tree. Must get those up soon.

Only 25 shopping days left to Julafton, Swedish Christmas.

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Stockholm Halloween: Better than in Boston ;-)

Saturday, October 31st, 2009

Halloween in Stockholm blows away Halloween in Boston.

OK, before anyone gets too worked up with indignation, rolls up sleeves and lashes back,  let me make that more precise.  Trick-or-treating for kids on Halloween (well, we did it last night on the eve) on my street in northern Stockholm was better than what I could have imagined my kids could experience in Watertown had I brought them there to try it out.

My childhood memory of dressing up and going around the neighborhood conjures powerful emotional ties. If I reflect on days gone by growing up outside of Boston, there is no better memory than getting dressed up in costume and coming home with a pillowcase full of candy (well, snow days and late night sledding before the snowplows came compete for top billing.)

That fuzzy warm nostalgia had made me seriously consider crossing the pond purely to expose the kids to a Halloween night of trick-or-treating, American style.  But for cost, time and pragmatic reasons I tried to give it a go with my street’s neighbors.

I put in the legwork (which included knocking on every door to ask if people would want to join in) got every kid on the street to sign up and even imported some friends’ kids to fill up the street.

It was truly magical. Nearly every neighbor was eager to be a part of it. More than half of them carved a pumpkin or lit candles to signal the festivity. Some of them were to so generous that they gave out small bags of candy to each child. It warmed my heart to witness the enthusiasm, hospitality and kindness of my Swedish neighbors.

And so many English-speaking non-Swedes out there think Swedes are so cold, unapproachable and boring. Ha. You haven’t been to my hood. We ROCK!

Happy Halloween to all out there, wherever you may be. And I hope you have as good a Halloween as we’ve had.

The neighbor's efforts to greet us

The neighbor's efforts to greet us

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New trends taking off: High flying jeans.

Friday, October 23rd, 2009

My flight attendant on the trip back to Stockholm Bromma had on jeans.  I found it odd and interesting simultaneously. The boisterous guy in the seat across the aisle thought so too as he pointed it out to his  buddies. He ended up flirting with her on and off throughout the hour flight.  I think it was part of his boisterousness persona.

I think the jeans were a part of her flight attendant’s uniform. Sweden is ahead of the times on the dress-down trends of the world. Maybe little Kullaflyg (servicing Ängelholm, Visby, Mora and Bromma) is a global trendsetter.

Today was my business travel debut. For most of you that’s old hat, I know. But when you’re your own boss and your customer base is local, the closest you get to business travel is writing off business-related trips on your tax forms. Today was my first free ride.

The metropolis I visited today

The grand adventure brought me across Sweden to the northwest corner of Skåne, to Höganäs, home of Sweden’s traditional stoneware pottery (well, birthplace more like, today the pottery is owned by KostaBoda in Småland.)  Skåne is one of my favorite regions of Sweden. It is Sweden’s “breadbasket” with rolling farmland and quaint farmhouses with a very long enveloping coastline. The great tease that this trip was, I didn’t see much of it.

The metropolis I visited today

But I did very much enjoy having a flight attendant in jeans. More new trends Kullaflyg.

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Getting (SL) Access: Finally with it.

Thursday, October 1st, 2009

Stockholm-technology-wise I’m a little behind the times these days. I just acquired, loaded and used for passage my first SL (Stockholm’s public transit authority) Access card at a terminal.

Where I stood and loaded

Where I stood and loaded

Mine is red.

An array of colors

An array of colors

I felt so technologically smooth and clumsy at the same time needing to read the instructions closely.

And this has got to be my fastest post ever. Pulling into Centralen (Stockholm Central Station) now.

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Bad sport motion: When words say more than pictures.

Friday, September 25th, 2009

Sometimes the a few words caught in a picture are worth more than a thousand words. (Not sure how a picture stacks up in the valuing system on this one, sorry.) My local swimming pool complex recently reminded me of this worn-down-though-never-quite-worn-out giggle over Swedish words and signs which read funny for English-language eyes.

  • Fart hinder–speed bump

Gotta wonder why they use boobie images to reduce speed.

Gotta wonder why they use boobie images to reduce speed.

  • Infart and Exfart–entrance and exit

The sign is cautionary. Yes, we should warn people about them.

The sign is cautionary. Yes, we should warn people about them.

And…

  • Slut–the end. So plastered over retail windows is Slut Rea or final sale.
     Sluts for sale?...nah, just final clearance

    Sluts for sale?...nah, just final clearance

Personally, my favorite Swedish sign has no funny words

Seems car diving is allowed though you should take care

Seems car diving is allowed though you should take care

And so the trigger for this review of funny words and signs in English belongs to the place I just spent Friday afternoon into the evening :

Not the most appealing signs to get new members signed up

Not the most appealing signs to get new members signed up

It just seems to counter the effort to attract members to come and work out or get fit.  But then again, instead of advertising, perhaps they’re reminding me, the passer-by, of my own condition.

Dunno. But I signed up for a 3-month training pass. I wonder if I am diligent if they’re update the sign to “Good Sport Motion”.

I’d be happy with Good Sport.

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Gimme the good drugs: You’d think a pain-killer would be more easily available.

Thursday, May 7th, 2009

The periodontist (that’s fancy speak for fancy dentist) asked me while he was extracting my molar (that’s fancy speak for tooth in the back) what I missed from the US while living in Sweden. The speed of getting an appointment for an emergency molar extraction was first on my list.

Second on my list was: Pain-killers, the good stuff. (Well, in fairness the list would have been different under other circumstances, but let’s not digress too much.)

Last August, a few hours after an invasive knee operation, nearly in tears, I hobbled my way to the emergency room to get something for the pain after the local anesthesia wore off. The clinic (Sophiahemmet, a fancy one in the fancy part of Stockholm) sent me home with nothing. Feeling no pain when I left I never thought of what I might need later on. The emergency room offered me the equivalent of an “aspirin plus”.

The fear of the potential drug abuse of narcotics seems to upstage the genuine need for short-term pain relief in Sweden. It does seem ironic that the medical facility couldn’t administer one dose of something potent under their guidance, but I could leave with a prescription of Codeine.

The fancy dental doctor was a fan of Sweden (home of the dental implant inventor, Per-Invar Brånemark) and a bit surprised. Cheerfully, he assured me that I’d get a ’scrip of the good stuff.

The extraction did create some serious pain.  Thankfully, I was comforted by my prescribed pain-killers. I only need one or two to get over the worst of it. I’m hoarding the rest. You just never know when you’ll be in the need.

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Answer your email, that’s why you have it.

Tuesday, May 5th, 2009

Why is so acceptable to ignore email in Sweden? I think I’m more puzzled by people unfazed by all their unanswered emails than the fact that so often Swedes don’t answer their emails. Why oh why do companies have an info@ email address when they clearly have no intention of replying to the incoming traffic?

Then again, if a company trying to earn a krona or två (2) willfully ignores its potential customer base I would say: “Suit yourself bucko and go belly up like the worst of them.” Unfortunately their indifference to us consumers doesn’t even shake the pen on the bottom line. Why?

I used to whine about my perception of the lack of service. But now I’ve converted to “Blame the consumer”. After all, if we accept the crap way they treat us who else can we blame? But at the end of the day, enough of the pragmatic understanding and do the right thing.

Answer your darn email already.

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Highlights from Follow Sweden

20 things to know before moving to Sweden

As diverse as Sweden is, there are a few societal norms that are distinctly Swedish. Understanding a handful of them will hopefully prepare you culturally before you relocate. When you're invited home to a Swede, you better be on time and take your shoes off, writes expat Lola Akinmade-Åkerström. Read more »

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