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Timeless in summer

Saturday, June 16th, 2012

Ellie the dog and I trundled down the path with the contributions to the evening “knytis” at the beautiful mansion on the hill overlooking Lake Mälar. For those of you who do not know it, a “knytis” is a lovely Swedish term for a potluck dinner which translates more directly as “a little knot.” It was tricky balancing the basil and orange salad with Ellie’s need to explore the high grass, but after some time I managed to convince her that the dirt path leading through our magical settlement originating in the 18th century could be OK.

The soft summer breeze caught my wide, sailor-style white cotton trousers and called my attention to the fact that I was dressed like Lauren Bacall on a casual summer evening with her artist friends in the 1940s. It is funny the way that a piece of clothing can transport one’s thoughts through time and personalities. The small gatherings of friends in their magical gardens here and there upped the feeling of living in another time.  I was beginning to think that people’s schedules didn’t allow for this sort of thing any more, but here they were, and my faith in the transformational powers of humanity was restored, once again.

As we arrived at my artist friends’ beautiful home on the hill, we noticed the party was gathered in the clearing to the right of the house. Here, we entered into a mood that was distinctly 1970s. People reminisced about revolutionary urges and the rejection of convention. I had been a young child in those days and admitted that my memory of that time was my third grade teacher, who sported a gigantic afro and beard (one saw very little of his face) and started our classroom days with Dylan’s “Blowin’ in the Wind,” having smoked a joint or two.  I find that the spirit of that time is coming back to us again, as young people awaken to the mess that the older generation has left behind on this planet. One young man told me he was going to spend a month in the forest this summer, living close to the earth, with thousands of others who are choosing to do the same thing.

The “knytis” was a wonderful success. A long table was heavily laden with all of the dishes and delicacies one could possibly desire. No one had co-ordinated their contributions. The buffet seemed a perfect example of the strange and unique order that can emerge spontaneously out of total chaos. Since most appeared to be vegetarians, Ellie enjoyed the meatballs.

As the sun moved westward, the group shifted towards the gazebo overlooking Lake Mälar. Ellie and I wandered down to the waterfront  and found a woman meditating naked on the dock. A few minutes later, when we had hurried back up the hill, so as not to interrupt pure thoughts, we heard the most beautiful, seeking cry come from this very same woman. She hurled out her arresting voice across the surface of the lake and sang to the sun. No one moved. My thoughts were cast back into a primal time, when man’s needs had been basic and song was uncluttered. Perhaps we were in the Stone Age or further back somewhere on the timeline of all life.

I wandered home, the sensuous feeling of no time all over me. The garden parties had gone inside and all that was left was the sounds of the night. As we approached Midsummer, the birds seemed never to stop singing, as true darkness never came.  I stood in the garden and listened one more time before closing the door for the night. The world was full of the most extraordinary things.

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Swedish Island Holiday: The art of being carefree

Sunday, July 17th, 2011

It ain't easy being carefree

It’s the sort of summer when you stop paying attention to the weather forecasts. They never seem to get it right. As I flung open the kitchen door this morning to push out Lucy the dog, who needs to be presented with a fait accompli in order to get up in the mornings, the sun shone brightly on the rainbow of roses that my husband and I had planted on the sandy hill. It’s interesting that when the sun shines despite the weather forecast, you don’t ask yourself where the clouds are. They’re just somewhere else, and here on my Swedish island during this short respite of light that we call summer, that is just fine.

There are always a hundred things to do here, but the wonderful thing about mornings in this place away from the gaze of schedules, is that you can ignore all of them and do something else. I started by counting the number of rose varieties that my husband and I had planted during all of the years that we had worked on this impossible project. By the time I counted thirty-five, Lucy the dog sat staring, drooling for breakfast amid the roses on the largest bed. She’d have to wait another minute, since my thoughts had wandered to the thistle, which too were flowering. I began to notice that there were hundreds of tiny flowers on each thistle head, something which had not gone amiss on the bumble bees, which rushed frenetically from one sweet flower to the next, like children in a candy store. The lavender were blooming too and I checked to see whether there were any in my pockets. Noticing that there were none, I picked a few and stuffed them down. No one’s pockets should be without lavender sprigs during the summer.

At the dock, I picked up the book I’d left there on the day before. There is something carefree about being able to leave your book on a chair at the dock and know you’ll find it there dry and untouched on the following day. I opened the book to where I had left off and read a couple of pages. I looked up across the water toward the horizon. Here there was time to think about what one had read, read it again, and see it from yet another perspective. If only there was a way to take this feeling of space and time with me into the working year. Life had meaning when we gave ourselves the time to discover it.

Lucy the dog refused to accept that her breakfast was one of those musts that could be ignored on this carefree morning. Her dark brown eyes with the sultry, blond lashes stared at me as I turned the pages in my bubble of liberation from duty. Then a fish stirred in the water and her attention was diverted. Lucy could never resist the fish that nipped at the surface. They seemed to her one of life’s great mysteries, which she was determined to unravel by watching them for hours on end during these lazy days.

With Lucy now occupied, I laid down on the dock, warmed by the morning sun, and stared at the sky. Lying there, staring at pure sky without limits, time or onlookers, was to me the greatest of life’s luxuries. The skies had no plans written in them, no matter how much the tabloids liked to insist that they did with their 14-day prognoses. There were endless possibilities there at all times. It was only we who chose to see sun or rain.

The strings of a guitar sounded out the open window. My son had awoken and was doing whatever struck him first. I was glad that he knew how to be carefree. It was one of those things that might protect him in life.

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The Value of Island DIY

Monday, July 13th, 2009
You can never start them too early

You can never start them too early

While Christine Demsteader floats from one Swedish village to the next without a care in the world, I am having a more traditional Swedish summer on my island in the wilderness. Here we take responsibility for the glass and the roofs that the winter destroyed, and the plumbing that we didn’t shut down properly before the winter came. We have sleepless nights because women no longer know how to sew curtains and because we worry that the wildlife will have a nighttime feeding orgy on our vegetable patch. We start projects with our bare hands that people living in most other countries would hire a bulldozer for. We receive post cards from people in southern Europe who seem to think that it is OK to lie on a beach and speak French all summer.

During my first experience of this Swedish island summer, I remember listening to the echo of Birger and Birgit soaring across the lake. Both of them had reached the ripe old age of eighty-something and they were still harvesting potatoes in the way that their parents had done when they were born. Birger dragged a great wagon filled with potatoes ahead of Birgit who threw the dirty bulbs into a satchel hung diagonally over her chest. As the sun beat down on their little clearing, Birger groaned. “Slave camp!” shouted Birgit. “That is what this is, pure slave camp!”

At the time I couldn’t understand them. I was here on holiday for a couple of weeks and hadn’t yet developed any DIY instincts. 13 years later I sometimes consider shouting the same words across the lake as Birgit once did. I’ve got no one to compete with since Birger and Birgit passed on some years ago. Sometimes my head spins at the expected industriousness of a traditional Swedish summer. “I can tell that you are not just a writer,” my masseuse says when she examines my arms and hands during my one hour of true holiday at her massage bed.

My husband keeps threatening to take us to Corsica next year and offer up our little piece of Swedish paradise to visitors who like fixing burst pipes.  Still, I cling to my traditional Swedish island summer and often wonder why. One of Sweden’s leading wilderness experts once told me that he had chosen his vocation of teaching people how to survive in adverse conditions, because he thought that it could solve many of society’s problems. “If the lights go out, no one knows what to do any more – people feel dependent, even helpless”, he said. Perhaps it is this dimension of a traditional Swedish island summer that has so many of us coming back feeling strong. As I throw my soiled bulbs into my shoulder satchel, I will give it some more thought.

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What’s in a Rose?

Tuesday, June 30th, 2009
Why do you love this?

Why do you love this?

I’ve returned from the blazing heat of Oslo to my breezy Swedish summer island and, with this, to my rose garden. Everywhere I look there is a new petal unfolding with its very own color and aroma. I know that I am not alone in my lusty passion for roses. My mother calls me from Germany and proclaims with exaltation that she has just been out in the rose gardens of Baden-Baden. “Wonderful, wunderbar…” In fact, I don’t think it would be wrong to say that most people find roses irresistible. Isn’t this mysterious? They aren’t chocolate (i.e. not quick energy) and we don’t need them for our survival.

Determined to get to the bottom of our common human fascination with roses, I spend the first few minutes of each summer morning with my nose in a rose. Outside my laundry room I take in the mesmerizing aroma of a pink rose with a French name that I can never quite remember. The precious buds of this rose are the stuff that our perfume bottles are filled with. Is our attraction to roses simply about creating an attraction to each other? Does our fascination with roses just boil down to hormones?

Around the corner, I immerse my senses in the light, soapy aroma of Graham Thomas. Graham is a yellow rose with a voluptuous bloom. It’s brightness reminds me of the sun which we see comparatively little of here in the cold, dark North. Is our fascination for roses a dimension of that feeling that we are witnessing a miracle? Can there really be life of so rich a quality after the barren winter?

For me, roses are a reminder that almost anything is possible if you set your mind to it. A decade ago, I arrived on this sandy, rocky island with a grand vision of a rose garden and no clue as to how to create one. With each plant nursery that I visited, I received the depressing advice of the experts to be realistic and go for the ugly hardy types or no roses at all.  Sometimes it can be helpful to be stubborn. Drawing on the invaluable advice of an experienced Danish rose expert, I dropped some slightly rotten herring (strömming or Baltic herring) into the bottom of the deep hole that I dug for each new rose in my garden. Years later I am thankful for being stubborn and for the advice about the diverse uses of rotten herring.

The next time that you see a rose give a thought as to why it fascinates you. Taking a step back from your immediate perceptions, and considering them even for a moment, can expand your ’space’ immeasurably.

And this?

And this?

 
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Want to learn more about roses? Visit Rose Week (13-19 July) and the Rose Festival (18 July) at Wij Gardens in none other than the new Swedish Mecca, Ockelbo
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

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