An Alien in Sweden

A blog about my move from England and my new life in Sweden.
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Why can’t the UK handle a little snow?

Tuesday, March 12th, 2013

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Reading today about the snow in Sussex. Several inches fell, and many were stuck in their cars for hours. Some even abandoned their cars to walk to a service station.

I remember the same thing happened in 2002 when I was traveling back from Bristol to London. It was the first real snowfall we had seen in about eight years. The next significant snowfall was not until 2007 if I recall.

Yet every year since then it had snowed when I have been in the UK. What used to be something of a rare snowfall is what I would be describing as seasonal norm. So why is the UK not able to cope with a few inches of snow?

Of course, Scandinavia gets more, and it lasts a lot longer. But here life seems to continue. Cars drive on the roads (with winter tyres), the trains run on time, planes land and depart. The difference, I feel, is that Scandinavia are far more prepared.

The UK has weather warnings, yet you only see the gritting lorries and snow ploughs when traffic is piled back. Here each morning, afternoon and night, they are out making the roads easier to navigate.

The UK will never be prepared for adverse weather. In 2010 when the airports were shut due to an inch of snow all other European countries seemed to carry on as it was everyday business.

Next year stock up on grit invest in more snow ploughs and gritters and make it a 24 hour service on the roads and not just when the snow falls. No excuse really! Reading today about the snow in Sussex. Several inches fell, and many were stuck in their cars for hours. Some even abandoned their cars to walk to a service station.

I remember the same thing happened in 2002 when I was traveling back from Bristol to London. It was the first real snowfall we had seen in about eight years. The next major snowfall was not until 2007 if I recall.

Yet every year since then it had snowed when I have been in the UK. What used to be something of a rare snowfall is what I would be describing as seasonal norm. So why is the UK not able to cope with a few inches of snow?

Of course, Scandinavia gets more and it lasts a lot longer. But here life seems to continue like it should. Cars drive on the roads (with winter tyres), the trains run on time, planes land and depart.

The UK has weather warnings, yet you only see the gritting lorries and snow ploughs when traffic is piled back. Here each morning, afternoon and night they are out making the roads easier to navigate.

The UK will never be prepared for adverse weather. In 2010 when the airports were shut due to an inch of snow all other European countries seemed to carry on like it was everyday business.

Next year stock up on grit invest in more snow ploughs and gritters and make it a 24 hour service on the roads not just when the snow falls. No excuse really!

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Why I need Sweden more than ever

Tuesday, January 4th, 2011

Well that was not the start to 2011 that I really wanted.

Ten minutes into the New Year and my parents who have been married for 41 years (63 and 59 years of age) have announced that they are to separate and divorce. I’m not going to air any personal details on here but it seems final and as you can imagine it’s a huge blow.

The house that is going to be sold has been my childhood home since I was six years old and there is nothing I would have loved better than to take my Swedish love to the house where I grew up, showed her the schools where I forged my education and of course introduce her to the family. But now those dreams have been ripped apart by a savage blow that I never expected.

After this harsh Swedish winter I planned to show her the UK for the first time and try and allow her to fall in love with a country just as I had done to hers but alas that has now been taken from me. Of course on the other hand it meant that I had longed to show my own parents Sweden, a land where there son had moved in order to begin a new life, a new chapter and I was so looking forward to displaying my knowledge, albeit minimal, just to see how much “the boy had grown”

No it feels just so abandoned and isolated. A mere myth.

I moved here three months ago, knowing that if it all went wrong I would have the safety and comfort of my family home to return to. That is no more. What once was my home has changed, I am here and now the comfort has gone this is all I have.

Sweden is no longer a place where I “Will see what happens” it’s now a place where I fight for my very future. I chose to make Sweden my home and though for the past twelve weeks it’s been an adopted home it now is the only place I have.
Life will never be the same but I could not wish to be anywhere else right now. Sweden my place, my home.

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Make your mind up. Now!

Tuesday, June 22nd, 2010

Some people can just never see the grasp of how something that is important to one person is simply not that important to another. For the past six months now I have specifically told my publisher that I will be moving to Sweden on 17th September. I was told that this would not affect our current arrangement and that the work and writing would continue from there. Of course I would have to make trips back to the UK on a frequent basis but I can live with that.

So I made all the arrangements, got the correct paperwork and the visa was approved. I gave notice on my current home and had even got to the stage of paying an international shipping agency to carry my things over. I thought all was fine, now it looks as though that may not be the case.

I’ve been verbally told that the agreement was solid and that nothing would affect it. Yet when I ask for a contract in writing I now get told “Nothing has been agreed”. They have signed me up to do a lot of work and writing in September but how can I do that if I am not here?

I am going to Sweden on 17th September. End of story. If they want me to carry on then agree it, otherwise I am simply walking away from the deal. Regardless of what financial pain it will bring my way.

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