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		<title>Behind the happy face of the Swedish anti-prostitution law</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Wherever I go, wherever I live, I always meet people with critical,  original and non-conforming views, and Sweden is no exception. Today&#8217;s  special post comes from Louise Persson, whose book on &#8216;classical&#8217; feminism came out last year and  who has been blogging at Frihetspropaganda since March 2004. Her allegiance is to libertarianism, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.thelocal.se/blogs/theotherswedishmodel/files/2010/07/klassisk.jpg"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-182" title="klassisk" src="http://www.thelocal.se/blogs/theotherswedishmodel/files/2010/07/klassisk-200x300.jpg" alt="" width="200" height="300" /></a>Wherever I go, wherever I live, I always meet people with critical,  original and non-conforming views, and Sweden is no exception. Today&#8217;s  special post comes from Louise Persson, whose <a title="klassisk" href="http://www.adlibris.com/se/product.aspx?isbn=918618508X" target="_blank">book on &#8216;classical&#8217; feminism</a> came out last year and  who has been blogging at <a title="frihets" href="http://www.louisep.com/node/2142" target="_blank">Frihetspropaganda</a> since March 2004. Her allegiance is to libertarianism, and she likes to  call herself an activist. A longtime critic of the Swedish law  criminalising the purchase of sex, Louise wrote the article below about  the report on the government&#8217;s evaluation of the law, which was  published on Friday. Links to numerous other Swedish critiques of the  inquiry and report are at the end: many Swedes don&#8217;t like the law, but,  since the government treats it as a symbol of Swedishness, these voices  are rarely heard in public forums. Remind anyone of other governments we  know? Re-posted from <a title="behind the happy" href="http://www.lauraagustin.com/behind-the-happy-face-of-the-swedish-anti-prostitution-law" target="_blank">Laura Agustín&#8217;s Border Thinking</a>.</p>
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<p><strong>Behind the happy face of the Swedish anti-prostitution law<br />
Or, the success that is the Swedish sex-purchase law, or maybe not . . .<br />
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<p>Louise Persson, 3 July 2010</p>
<p><em>&#8216;We don&#8217;t work with harm reduction in Sweden. Because that&#8217;s not  the way Sweden looks upon this. </em><em>We see it as a ban on  prostitution: there should be no prostitution&#8217;</em>, <a title="skarhed" href="http://www.regeringen.se/sb/d/13301/a/149143" target="_blank">said  governmental inquirer</a> Anna Skarhed smilingly to the journalist  attending the press conference on the <a title="press conf" href="http://www.regeringen.se/content/1/c6/14/91/42/ed1c91ad.pdf" target="_blank">release of the report on an inquiry</a> meant to  evaluate  the effects of the sex purchase law <a title="remit" href="http://www.regeringen.se/content/1/c6/10/33/66/0d27409a.pdf" target="_blank">but not to question</a> the law itself. And later: <em>&#8216;Harm  reduction is not the Swedish model.&#8217;</em> (<a title="eng summ" href="http://www.regeringen.se/content/1/c6/14/91/42/ed1c91ad.pdf" target="_blank">long English summary</a> pp 29-44, or <a title="lauras  key" href="../../../../../ban-on-purchase-of-sex-helps-prevent-and-combat-prostitution-says-swedish-evaluation" target="_blank">key excerpts in English</a> ).</p>
<p>Skarhed went on to say that prostitutes &#8211; women &#8211; are not  marginalized. There are some who claim that, but &#8216;We don&#8217;t see that&#8217;.</p>
<p><strong>The statement about harm reduction is highly interesting. </strong>A  harm-reduction framework stands in opposition to moralistic laws, but  Skarhed refused to acknowledge the law&#8217;s moral character, presenting it  as merely a &#8216;ban&#8217; on unacceptable behaviour. It isn&#8217;t really true  either, that there is no harm reduction here. Sweden may be restrictive  and repressive against users of illicit drugs and buyers of sex, but  there are some pragmatic &#8211; harm reduction &#8211; programmes in Sweden. One  might imagine that an expert on law appointed by government as an  independent researcher would have some insight into the difference  between pragmatism and ideology. <em>You cannot assess the effects of the  law without any understanding of harm reduction, it&#8217;s like assessing  everything but the effects on the people involved. </em></p>
<p><strong>The report&#8217;s claim that sexworkers are not marginalized is bafflingly arrogant</strong>, ignoring what many sexworkers say about how the  law increases stigma and therefore their marginalization in society. <a title="pye video" href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7D7nOh57-I8" target="_blank">See  this video with Pye Jakobsson of Rose Alliance</a>, as an example.</p>
<p><strong>As a longtime critic of the law, I had low expectations</strong>, but this I didn&#8217;t expect: An astounding absence of objective and unbiased  guiding principles, a lack of solid evidence and a confusing methodical  picture that could mean outright guesswork. All the report&#8217;s conclusions  are therefore questionable. I was prepared to focus on the fact that  Skarhed wasn&#8217;t allowed to freely criticise the law, but the report  itself is a worse problem. Now-familiar self-congratulatory references to Sweden&#8217;s higher moral ground compared with other countries are not  missing: here the law is ascribed an almost magical power to eradicate  patriarchy and sex trafficking, both.</p>
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<p><strong>&#8216;Sources&#8217; are mentioned</strong>, but absolutely nothing is explained  about methodology. <em>Sources</em> mentions persons and organisations  talked to, including <a title="Ecpat" href="http://www.ecpat.net/EI/index.asp" target="_blank">ECPAT</a> (although the child aspect of the law evades me) but there is nothing  about how interviewees were chosen, why they were relevant, what  questionnaire was used or how interviews were analysed.</p>
<p><strong>Sexworkers themselves are listed as sources</strong>, but they seem to  have been forgotten until quite late. They are called, in a  discriminatory manner, &#8216;exploited persons&#8217; (p. 126-127). A total of 14  persons from two organisations  filled out a  questionnaire: about half  were active sexworkers from <a title="rose a" href="http://www.rosealliance.se/" target="_blank">Rose Alliance</a>,  the other half former sexworkers from <a title="pris" href="http://etc.se/artikel/15379/nytt-naetverk-foer-prostituerade" target="_blank">PRIS</a>. The findings from this research were a  foregone conclusion anyway: active sexworkers are said to be  unaware of  their own exploitation and former sexworkers to be happy with  criminalisation. The similarity is striking to the feminist idea that  all women in prostitution need to be rescued and liberated. What Skarhed  doesn&#8217;t mention is that PRIS&#8217;s very few members had already declared  themselves in favour of the law. Rose Alliance, also a small  organisation, have been critical of the law, but at least they made the  questionnaire available online to any sexworker who wanted to  participate. Few found it worthwhile, unfortunately.* The issue here is  that it is inappropiate to take two small, local organisations and claim  they represent all active and former sexworkers.</p>
<p><strong>Maybe suspecting the report will be taken as the ridiculous  rubbish it is</strong>, Skarhed chose to publish a long, personal,  heart-rending &#8217;story&#8217; of one unhappy former prostitute. The implicit  (ridiculous) rhetoric aimed at anyone criticising the law is &#8216;Hey, are  you in favour of this suffering?&#8217; But this strategy won&#8217;t hold up,  because Swedes know that all sex workers are not miserable. Where the  text says &#8216;people with experience of prostitution have complex needs&#8217;  (p. 93), Skarhed actually refers to this single story, as if all sex  workers can be lumped together as miserable victims?. The text itself  was written by PRIS, another indication of the report&#8217;s political  agenda.</p>
<p><strong>Moreover</strong> <strong>Skarhed claims</strong> (in chapter 4.3) that, on the  one hand, they haven&#8217;t a clue about how many sexworkers there are in  Sweden, and, on the other, that the law has successfully reduced street  prostitution by 50%. But she also said the increase of services offered  on Internet sites is no different from nearby countries&#8217;, from which she  concludes fuzzily that this shows that the law has not contributed to  any increase in &#8216;hidden&#8217; prostitution. This is clearly an attempt to  head off arguments from the law&#8217;s critics. The only actual conclusion is  that the decrease of street prostitution in Sweden is a real decrease  resulting from the law. Causation by confusion? It is indeed remarkable  what conclusions can be drawn based on not having a clue, i.e any  figures, a point already noted in another government <a title="socialsty  rapp" href="http://www.socialstyrelsen.se/publikationer2007/2007-131-48" target="_blank">assessment of prostitution in Sweden</a> in 2007  (Socialstyrelsen-National Board of Health and Welfare).</p>
<p><strong>Maybe there is a state of mind that can explain this.</strong> Skarhed  stated at the press conference that the conclusions were obvious and the  material gathered justified drawing them.</p>
<blockquote><p>I think that these are quite obvious conclusions. But the  important thing for the inquiry has been to try to, so to speak, get  the basis for being able to draw them. And this is how we have worked.</p></blockquote>
<p>That is a statement which in itself should raise serious questions  about the methodology and empiric usefulness of the inquiry. The report  also says (and this is the closest we get to a discussion of  methodology):</p>
<blockquote><p>The empirical surveys that have been carried out have, in  some cases, had limited scope, and different working procedures,  methods and purposes have been used. In light of these and other  factors, there can at times be reason to interpret the results with  caution. However, despite these reservations, we still consider that it  is possible to draw conclusions based on the material to which we had  access, and the results we are presenting based on this data give, in  our view, as clear a picture as is currently possible to produce.</p></blockquote>
<p><strong>Another explanation lies probably</strong>, and most importantly, in  the government&#8217;s original directive to Skarhed: the objective was t<em>o  evaluate whether the law has had any deterrent function,</em> which was  the original ambition behind the law, and to recommend how it could be  strengthened to meet that ambition. The directive stated that the law is  important and that <em>the inquiry could not suggest, or point in any  direction other than, that buying of sex should be criminalised</em>.  Therefore, whether the law has been up till now a failure or a success,  the only possible conclusions were <em>either</em> strengthening  enforcement <em>or</em> leaving the status quo.</p>
<p><a title="dod" href="http://susannedodillet.com/monografier.aspx" target="_blank">Academic  work</a> criticising the law from <a title="dodi" href="http://www.svd.se/opinion/brannpunkt/sexhandeln-far-inte-fingranskas_1215041.svd" target="_blank">Susanne Dodillet</a> in 2009 is merely mentioned in the  reference section; nothing is noted about her findings in the report  itself. The same applies to <a title="petra o" href="http://www.expressen.se/debatt/1.1114663/med-dagens-feminister-finns-ingen-sexuell-revolution-i-sikte" target="_blank">Petra Östergren</a>, who pioneered a critical study and  <a title="petra bok" href="http://www.petraostergren.com/pages.aspx?r_id=40295" target="_blank">book</a> in 2006 about the sexual moralism surrounding  the kind of feminism that lies behind the Swedish law. Both are  indirectly brushed off in a comment saying it is irrelevant to  distinguish between forced or voluntary prostitution (p. 15). By  including these books in the reference list but not actually addressing  their criticism the report can, of course, feign impartiality without  actually bothering to be impartial.</p>
<p><strong>The evaluation&#8217;s task was to suggest possible changes to the law</strong>,  and that is accomplished by proposing to raise the maximum penalty for  clients of sex workers from 6 months to one year of imprisonment.  Another suggested change was to grant sexworkers compensation as  victims, which is currently not the case.</p>
<p>These changes in penalties would bring the law into line with those  applied for violent crimes such as beatings, fitting exactly the radical  feminist ideology that prostitution is a form of violence against  women. The idea to compensate sexworkers as victims of violence was  originally Catharine MacKinnon&#8217;s, thus far only supported in Sweden by  the Swedish Feminist party (they published on <a title="sfi" href="http://www.newsmill.se/artikel/2008/11/03/torskarna-ska-betala-skadestand-till-de-prostituerade" target="_blank">newsmill</a> together with MacKinnon in 2008; my  Swedish response <a title="louise mot sfi" href="http://www.newsmill.se/artikel/2008/11/03/sexkopslagen-och-mackinnons-hala-tval" target="_blank">here</a>).</p>
<p>Skarhed&#8217;s recommendations raise serious questions about her status as  an objective observer. The fact that the quality of the inquiry was so  poor makes it even more important to raise them.</p>
<p>With all that said, the inquiry does have one more point of interest  that should be addressed.</p>
<p><strong>It is claimed that trafficking for sexual purposes has been  affected by the law.</strong> Yet again, this is based on the &#8216;notion&#8217; (what  people think and claim) that Sweden is not attractive to traffickers.  This may very well be true, but the report does not ask <em>how</em> the  law might have had this impact, with some historical comparison, since  we don&#8217;t know whether Sweden ever was attractive before. The same kind  of question applies to prostitution, but that would raise the need of  hard figures, not easily obtainable in a country where prostitution is,  in practice, criminal.</p>
<p><strong>The inquiry now goes into a referral process, to get different  opinions before making any decisions for a change of law.</strong> I hope the  organisations, experts and authorities who are to assess the report see  it for what it is, an ideological work in compliance with a preordained  political stance (to ban a phenomenon), not a sound and helpful  instrument for assessing the real effects of the law.</p>
<p>* <em>I asked Pye Jakobsson, president of the Swedish sexworker  organisation  Rose Alliance, about her contact with the inquiry. She  says they were  sent a questionnaire last January and put in online, but  very few sex  workers took an interest in filling it out, because the  questions were  &#8216;idiotic&#8217;.</em></p>
<p><strong>Other critiques in Sweden so far </strong></p>
<p>An academic project on prostitution, <a title="nppr" href="http://nppr.se/2010/07/02/evaluating-the-swedish-ban-on-the-purchase-of-sexual-services-the-anna-skarhed-report/" target="_blank">NPPR</a>, published a careful assessment of the report  (in English), calling it <em>endless fodder for proponents and critics of  the ban alike to continue trading claims and counter-claims as to what  the ban has (and has not) achieved since its implementation. </em>A  perhaps needlessly neutral way to say that it isn&#8217;t that hard to see the  flaws. Other independent views from <a title="wagenius" href="http://missbesserwisser.blogspot.com/2010/07/sexkopslagsutredningen.html" target="_blank">Hanna Wagenius</a>, <a title="dougherty" href="http://blogg.tianmi.info/2010/07/03/politiskt-bestallningsverk/" target="_blank">Niklas Dougherty</a>, <a title="rayman" href="http://blogg.svd.se/ledarbloggen?id=19848" target="_blank">Sanna  Rayman</a>, <a title="petterson" href="http://perpettersson.wordpress.com/2010/07/03/som-man-fragar-far-man-svar/" target="_blank">Per Pettersson</a>, <a title="greata" href="http://blogg.expressen.se/gretagarbo/entry.jsp?messid=607967" target="_blank">Greta</a>, <a title="brahn" href="http://www.fajaf.com/blog/?p=2347&amp;more=1&amp;c=1&amp;tb=1&amp;pb=1" target="_blank">Magnus Brahn</a>, <a title="egnell" href="http://motpol.blogspot.com/2010/07/bestallningsjobbet-ar-klart-straffet.html" target="_blank">Hans Egnell</a>, <a title="isberg" href="http://emil.isberg.eu/2010/07/03/sexkop-en-utredning/" target="_blank">Emil Isberg</a> and undoubtedly others as the days go  on. Best title is Helena von Schantz&#8217;s: <a title="von schantz" href="http://helenavonschantz.blogspot.com/2010/07/nasta-evidensfria-utredning-eller.html" target="_blank"><em>Practically Evidence-Free Inquiry.</em></a><a title="von schantz" href="http://helenavonschantz.blogspot.com/2010/07/nasta-evidensfria-utredning-eller.html" target="_blank"> </a></p>
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		<title>Good sex, equal sex: Who has the best sex?</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Feminists have better sex is the latest catchphrase from Sweden’s feminist political party, Feministiskt Initiativ. That’s right, people supposedly interested in personal and class liberation sound as though they are engaged in a one-up-manship that says Our way of living is better than yours.
People who are alienated by this sort of stuff dismiss and hate [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-138" title="applesoranges" src="http://www.thelocal.se/blogs/theotherswedishmodel/files/2010/01/applesoranges-300x205.jpg" alt="applesoranges" width="300" height="205" /><strong>Feminists have better sex</strong> is the latest <a title="F have better sex" href="http://www.thelocal.se/23908/20091217/" target="_blank">catchphrase</a> from Sweden’s feminist political party, <a title="FI" href="http://www.feministisktinitiativ.se/" target="_blank">Feministiskt Initiativ</a>. That’s right, people supposedly interested in personal and class liberation sound as though they are engaged in a one-up-manship that says <em>Our way of living is better than yours</em>.</p>
<p>People who are alienated by this sort of stuff dismiss and hate feminism. Some years ago, I came to terms with the fact that there are different sorts of feminism. That is, many people who call themselves feminists believe in different, and sometimes opposing, ideas. I don’t see much future in endless battling about what ‘correct’ feminist values are. But this supposedly feminist claim about better sex is provoking.</p>
<p>One aspect of traditional value systems many dislike is how hierarchies are used to rank every aspect of life: grades, ratings, point systems all show how some people are better than others. Everyone can’t excel, many feel inferior and it all takes up too much time and energy.</p>
<p>It’s hardly significant that I don’t like FI’s catchphrase. But I wondered about the research that supposedly backed up the ‘better sex’ claim. Written by two psychologists at Rutgers University, Rudman and Phelan, the article is called ‘The Interpersonal Power of Feminism: Is Feminism Good for Romantic Relationships?’ The quantitative survey research asked participants to consider three items about sex: <em>My relationship is sexually satisfying, The sexual side of my relationship could use improvement </em>and<em> How often have you considered having a sexual relationship with someone other than your partner?</em></p>
<p>The basic finding was modest: ‘Contrary to popular beliefs, feminism may improve the quality of relationships, as opposed to undermining them.’ A measured conclusion hardly substantiating FI’s catchphrase and Schyman’s claim in her article <a title="Lycka kraver" href="http://www.newsmill.se/artikel/2009/09/11/bra-sex-ar-lycka" target="_blank">Lycka kräver reservationslösa relationer</a> (Happiness requires unreserved relationships).</p>
<p><a title="elin grelsson" href="http://www.expressen.se/debatt/1.1816888/fi-s-sexkampanj-ger-kvinnor-skuldkanslor" target="_blank">Elin Grelsson </a>responded in <em>Expressen</em> that the FI campaign sets up a new set of ideals for everyone to feel inadequate about, another demand that we live perfect lives. State Feminism tends to produce rigid, utopian formulas proclaimed the only proper way to live. <a title="schyman svard" href="http://www.expressen.se/debatt/1.1822211/vi-feminister-har-visst-battre-sex" target="_blank">Schyman and Svärd </a>objected and agreed that they know sexual satisfaction comes in many forms. But their reply’s title still uses the phrase ‘better sex’, continuing the same old idea that some sexual experiences are superior to others. Which is not what the authors of the original research said.</p>
<p>In fact, it’s impossible to measure sexual relations, so we can’t know who has good ones and who does not. The surveys mentioned simply asked people to say whether or not they felt satisfied. People who say they never enjoy sex, or it always hurts or disgusts them, are probably not having the same experience as people who say they always enjoy sex. On the other hand, maybe they <em>are </em>having the same experience but <em>evaluate</em> it differently (yes, it’s thorny).</p>
<p>But most people’s experiences fall between the two extremes: sometimes they enjoy sex and sometimes they don’t. There isn’t any formula for good sex: even someone who has managed to figure out what pleases her or him and how to achieve it has different experiences on different occasions. Too much to eat or drink, a bad day at the office, a thrilling film: all have the capacity to change how we perceive an experience that is, on the face of it, ‘the same’ as the last time. Sex education and sex therapy are forced to rely on descriptions of acts, diagrams of bodies and formulae about consent – as though always asking people if they want things were proof that all is well.</p>
<p>The term Gender Equality is usually used as though its meaning were obvious. Nowadays, equality in its most general sense is widely agreed to be a good idea; we believe human beings ought to enjoy equal opportunities to live, work and progress. In the abstract, it doesn’t seem difficult, but problems appear when we consider sex. Proponents of Gender Equality have a hard time understanding that people can consent to activities that don’t <em>sound</em> equitable (always being the ‘bottom’ or ‘top’ in sexual relations, one person having fewer orgasms than another).</p>
<p>Equality has more than one meaning: on the one hand, equivalency in value or status, with the idea of achieving balance; on the other, sameness and likeness. It is easier to see equality when things appear alike. But, as we know, people who seem alike end up being different in all sorts of ways – physical, mental, of ambition, of desire. The challenge is how to achieve equality and at the same time value human difference.</p>
<p>In Swedish, <em>likhet</em> refers to equality before the law as well as general similarity and alikeness. <em>Olikhet</em> is its opposite, and although <em>olika</em> things are usually understood simply to be different, more than one Swede has told me that unlikeness carries within it the notion of inequality. If that’s true, then a hierarchy is always present, some things considered more valuable than others. If difference implies a hierarchy then the achievement of equality becomes very hard indeed.</p>
<p><img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-145" title="applesandoranges" src="http://www.thelocal.se/blogs/theotherswedishmodel/files/2010/01/applesandoranges-300x200.jpg" alt="applesandoranges" width="300" height="200" />How can you have equality between apples and oranges? You can say they belong to the same food group and show all the qualities they have in common compared to other foods. But they don’t have the same taste. But you can say that they are alike in size and roundish shape and fleshiness. But then there are the differences. You have to peel one of them to eat it. That’s rather a disadvantage, but you can make it into an advantage by pointing out that it bruises less easily. You must face the fact that some people think one is delicious and the other not. Some people don’t like the colour orange. One can be cooked whole with some success while the other cannot. They have different assortments of vitamins and minerals.</p>
<p>Similarly, men’s and women’s bodies are different. You can declare both to be of equal biological value and both necessary to reproduce. You can argue that women are more powerful and interesting because they incubate and give birth to babies or that they are weaker because they have sometimes debilitating monthly menstruation. You can see men’s genitalia as marvellously external and knowable or women’s as fascinatingly internal and mysterious. You can say that liking to look at or touch one or the other is a matter of taste. Or you can object to the dichotomy man/woman, pointing to the fluidity of gender identities and the ambiguities of many bodies. In this case, when you talk about equality you have to face a much more complicated array of possibilities.</p>
<p>My point here is not to make an exhaustive list of contradictions in order to suggest that equality projects are useless. But the idea of equality has to be questioned when it comes to sex, and any notion of judging equality by likeness, or sameness, has to be avoided (as <a title="anna svensson" href="http://annasvensson.blogspot.com/2009/10/staten-och-feminismen-ar-en-egen.html" target="_blank">Anna Svensson </a>says in a discussion of the problems of State Feminism). Theoretically, a feminist outlook ought to be interested in uncovering the variety of feelings and thoughts for the sex that has long been subordinate. If you believe that most women, across the board, have been oppressed into a limited range of tasks, roles and expressions for most of history, almost everywhere – a truism – then a good step forward is to find out what women want and like, give them space to see where they would like to go before declaring some tastes unacceptable.</p>
<p>It is counter-productive, when women’s movements are still young and fumbling, to have institutionalised experts claiming to know what’s best for all women. That way, we get yet another hierarchy to substitute for the oppressive one we’re attempting to change. State Feminists, encouraged to believe they speak for everyone, condemn or marginalise everyone who doesn’t agree with them.  The principle should be allowing space for people to discover themselves, not decreeing them into silence. This will take some time.</p>
<p>Laura Agustín writes several times a week at <a title="border thinking" href="http://www.nodo50.org/Laura_Agustin" target="_blank">Border Thinking on Migration, Trafficking and Commercial Sex</a> and is author of <em>Sex at the Margins</em>, Zed Books 2007.</p>
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