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IS LOOKING AT OTHER GIRLS CONSIDERED CHEATING????

*Gothenburgmark*
post 2.Jul.2006, 02:40 PM
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Different people have different definitions of what cheating is.

Some say it is if you have sex with someone outside the relationship. Most agree on that.

Some say you are not cheating if you have oral sex with someone else, because you did not actually have intercourse.

Some say kissing another is cheating. Some say it is not actualy cheating

Some say even that looking at another person and appreciating thier beauty is cheating.

Do you guys think that looking at another person and appreciating (silently) their beauty is cheating. (Looking at another girl while you have a girlfriend or wife, etc.)
Do you guys consider this cheating? (Looking at another girl (butt, boobs, legs, etc.)??
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Marmi
post 2.Jul.2006, 02:57 PM
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Location: Not in Sweden
Joined: 8.Nov.2005

Anyone who says looking is cheating must be "psycho-possesive".
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*High Priestess Kang*
post 2.Jul.2006, 03:13 PM
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Dr Gothenburg:

Here is the link to an entire thread about cheating. http://www.thelocal.se/discuss/viewtopic.p...hlight=cheating

If you are feeling uncomfortable with your wanton lust, please feel free to visit me at The Conkers-Kang Church of Absolution. http://www.thelocal.se/discuss/viewtopic.php?t=4143

Respectfully...
High Priestess Kang
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*Gothenburgmark*
post 2.Jul.2006, 03:47 PM
Post #4


he he.
Not really a problem I face, as my wife is cool.
But I have seen people in Sweden and the US with girls yelling and screaming at them and threatening to leave them for looking at other girls.
What up wit dat?
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*Ms_me*
post 2.Jul.2006, 03:49 PM
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QUOTE (Gothenburgmark)
Different people have different definitions of what cheating is.

Some say it is if you have sex with someone outside the relationship. Most agree on that.

Some say you are not cheating if you have oral sex with someone else, because you did not actually have intercourse.

Some say kissing another is cheating. Some say it is not actualy cheating

Some say even that looking at another person and appreciating thier beauty is cheating.

Do you guys think that looking at another person and appreciating (silently) their beauty is cheating. (Looking at another girl while you have a girlfriend or wife, etc.)
Do you guys consider this cheating? (Looking at another girl (butt, boobs, legs, etc.)??



From a womans point of view...any kind of sexual contact with another besides your wife/GF is cheating...a kiss is just a kiss unless its a mmmmmmmmmm kiss with your other half...then thats cheating...now on the other hand... looking at another is not cheating...if that was the case...I'd be the biggest cheater of all...I do like looking at a guy in tight blue jean as do many of my girl friends do...we are butt watchers...damn..look at the fine butt on that guy !
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*Littlefair Or Am I*
post 3.Jul.2006, 10:27 AM
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No. There is nothing wrong with window shopping. Now staring and drooling that is another matter. :twisted:
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Michele
post 3.Jul.2006, 10:33 AM
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Location: Stockholm
Joined: 3.Jun.2005

As Littlefair said, looking isnt wrong. Growing up, a friends mother once said "Just cause I'm married, doesnt mean I havent got eyeballs!!!" and it is true!

HOWEVER... commenting on it to your partner or stopping and getting whiplash or something other than just an appreciative glance is well worth a whap to the back of the head, as far as I'm concerned. wink.gif
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VikingHumpingWitch
post 3.Jul.2006, 10:44 AM
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Location: Gothenburg
Joined: 21.Dec.2005

If I wasn't allowed to look at hot blokes then I'd have to walk around Gothenburg blindfolded. I don't know anyone who thinks looking is cheating, that sounds a bit bunny-boiler to me.
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*Holecutter >the Howl From*
post 3.Jul.2006, 11:25 AM
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I have to admit I'm a butt watcher....girls that is, tighter the better. The only time I loses my cool, is seeing those butts gyrating on bike saddles. I'll follow and then smell the saddle...pure bliss!!

Or a all women hocky match and then I will lurk under the stands, watching the butts bobbing up and down.

:twisted:
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Alfredo
post 3.Jul.2006, 11:41 AM
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Joined: 1.Dec.2005

I don't think that's considered cheating, just good old fashioned pervy ...
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*High Priestess Kang*
post 3.Jul.2006, 11:46 AM
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As my father told me when I was a young lass, complaining about men tooting their horns at me as I walked to work, "Men will whistle, women are to walk...ignoring them."

When I espy my husband ogling another woman, I reach over and screw his eyeballs back into his head. No harm, no foul. Just amusement for both of us.
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*High Priestess Kang*
post 3.Jul.2006, 11:47 AM
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QUOTE (Gothenburgmark)
he he.
Not really a problem I face, as my wife is cool.
But I have seen people in Sweden and the US with girls yelling and screaming at them and threatening to leave them for looking at other girls.
What up wit dat?


Do you look for the worst behaviour in everyone?
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*Cali*
post 3.Jul.2006, 11:52 AM
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I think that any sane person would agree that simply looking at another person of the opposite sex should not considered cheating. If it was, then we'd all be guity of it. After all we're only human, and in that capacity we cannot help but to look admiringly upon that which we find attractive.

However, this brings to mind another similar issue. In another forum I visit, a young woman (not me, btw, I isn't young smile.gif ) posted that she was concerned about her boyfriend always looking at internet porn when she's away, and sometimes even when she's there. Should excessive intake of porn be considered a problem? Is that a form of cheating?
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Alfredo
post 3.Jul.2006, 12:04 PM
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Joined: 1.Dec.2005

Funnily enough, our very own playboy Prince, Prince Harry, is in the news today for checking out the opposition:

http://www.expressen.se/index.jsp?a=624469

''Coralie berättar hur en svårt berusade Harry kom fram till henne på nattklubben. De pratade och dansade tryckare.
- Harry dansar väldigt bra, säger hon.''

''Coralie knäppte avsiktligt upp blusen lite, vilket fick Harry att stirra ännu mer.''

No surprise there ...

:shock:
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*Sitri*
post 3.Jul.2006, 12:46 PM
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Not many swingers here by the looks of it.
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