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Ex-wife wants to move back to Sweden with the kids

Should I move with them?

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post 21.Nov.2020, 10:29 AM
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Family life doesn't just have to mean the father. In 12 months time you'll be jobless and no income or benefits, then what.

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TheExpatEagle
post 21.Nov.2020, 09:10 PM
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QUOTE (Martin565 @ 20.Nov.2020, 08:20 PM) *
Only thing fake about me are the right jabs I feint before I throw in the big fast left hook.


Is everything about you an utter joke? I bet you couldn't beat you way out of a paper bag.
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Martin565
post 22.Nov.2020, 12:29 AM
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[quote name='TheExpatEagle' date='21.Nov.2020, 09:10 PM' post='956629']

Bet, you say?
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Grommet
post 22.Nov.2020, 04:50 AM
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QUOTE (Skogsbo1 @ 21.Nov.2020, 11:29 AM) *
Family life doesn't just have to mean the father. In 12 months time you'll be jobless and no income or benefits, then what.

There goes Wallander again. Hmm, you really couldn't fathom the guy might have a new job by then?

And so in your intellectually vacant world, Sweden is his saviour? His only answer? F'sakes. You could comedy SkoBo, if you weren't such a sad type clown.

OP, Sweden is going down the tubes. Economy, health-care, education, immigration, you name it. Your ex surely knows you will be in trouble if you go to Sweden.

If there is any way to keep your kids where they are, I would sincerely look into that option. Your kids will also undergo the Swedish brainwashing in school, where they will learn to become helpless, to stop thinking for themselves, and to have nanny-state look out for their interests, because they will never learn to do it for themselves. Pride, self-worth and critical thinking are all taboo in Sweden.

OP, go find the documentary "The Swedish Theory of Love" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0UfkSthddCE Do you really want your kids living in that shit?

Swedes are only socialised to function in the dysfunctional Swedish society. They struggle out in the real world, when they have only themselves to rely upon. Outside of Sweden, Swedes have zero confidence. And inside Sweden, they don't need it.
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post 22.Nov.2020, 07:58 AM
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QUOTE (Grommet @ 22.Nov.2020, 05:50 AM) *
There goes Wallander again. Hmm, you really couldn't fathom the guy might have a new job by then?And so in your intellectually vacant world, Sweden is his saviour? His onl ... (show full quote)

She won't be moving there because she thinks it's better for him or his future. He's no longer relevant. They've split. She's doing it for her own reasons.
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Grommet
post 22.Nov.2020, 09:22 AM
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QUOTE (Skogsbo1 @ 22.Nov.2020, 08:58 AM) *
She won't be moving there because she thinks it's better for him or his future. He's no longer relevant. They've split. She's doing it for her own reasons.

He's her children's father. And you are an asshole for suggesting he is irrelevant.
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Martin565
post 22.Nov.2020, 09:26 AM
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QUOTE (Grommet @ 22.Nov.2020, 09:22 AM) *
He's her children's father. And you are an asshole for suggesting he is irrelevant.


To him everything about this place and all swedes are infallible,
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post 22.Nov.2020, 09:46 AM
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QUOTE (Grommet @ 22.Nov.2020, 10:22 AM) *
He's her children's father. And you are an asshole for suggesting he is irrelevant.

She can't be expected to stay in Switzerland just because of him. It's not like they even have a job there now. And she has base her decision on her needs and the kids. What happens if he doesn't get a job there any way and moves to a completely different country.
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post 22.Nov.2020, 09:47 AM
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QUOTE (Martin565 @ 22.Nov.2020, 10:26 AM) *
To him everything about this place and all swedes are infallible,

Says the one forcing his wife to leave sweden and move to Birmingham with their kids.
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Grommet
post 22.Nov.2020, 09:58 AM
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QUOTE (Skogsbo1 @ 22.Nov.2020, 10:46 AM) *
She can't be expected to stay in Switzerland just because of him. It's not like they even have a job there now. And she has base her decision on her needs and the kids ... (show full quote)

What happens if a tree falls on you in the forest?

And again, Wallander, you argument equally applies to him. He can't be expected to go to Meatball Land, by your own reasoning.

And then you make it sound like the guy will never get a job again.

Good god man, you're so small town. So narrow minded. And just ever so completely full of shit.
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post 22.Nov.2020, 10:04 AM
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QUOTE (Grommet @ 22.Nov.2020, 10:58 AM) *
What happens if a tree falls on you in the forest? And again, Wallander, you argument equally applies to him. He can't be expected to go to Meatball Land, by your own reas ... (show full quote)

They've split, what he does and where he works is his choice.

It's not like he's native Swiss, why can't she move home? It's her choice.
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Martin565
post 22.Nov.2020, 10:09 AM
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Martin565
post 22.Nov.2020, 10:23 AM
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SteffromBristol
post 22.Nov.2020, 04:02 PM
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QUOTE (Skogsbo1 @ 22.Nov.2020, 10:04 AM) *
They've split, what he does and where he works is his choice.. It's not like he's native Swiss, why can't she move home? It's her choice.


Perfect, according to this logic I could announce to her tomorrow that I am moving to the UK or Germany with the kids (I grew up in both places) because I want to "go home" and she should be fine with that, right?

After all, it is "my choice" to go home and we have joint 50/50 custody, so why would her desire to go home trump mine? She could move with us after all!
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Martin565
post 22.Nov.2020, 04:36 PM
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