February 14, 2012
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It's a dilemma faced by many international families: will bringing up your kids as bilingual give them an edge, or set them up for mediocrity in two languages, asks Lee Martin.
What do you think? Leave your comment below.
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The Swedish government said on Tuesday it has expelled a foreign diplomat, but spokespeople were unwilling to confirm international reports that it was a high level official from Rwanda. READ »
On Valentine's Day, The Local invites you on a journey of seduction through Sweden, a country which may be worth probing further when it comes to matters of love. READ (2 COMMENTS) »
With Valentine's day upon us again, The Local called for messages from the star-crossed lovers of Sweden, who sent us their loving letters and sweet tweets in a celebration of love in Sweden. READ (2 COMMENTS) »
A Swedish man set to take off on his "dream holiday" to Mexico was turned away before boarding, as flight officials claimed he shared the name of a wanted terrorist. READ (18 COMMENTS) »
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The Swedish Government has penned a new terror strategy, upgrading Sweden’s risk status since the last plan four years ago, calling for an ‘inter-agency cooperation’ in the fight to counter terror in Sweden. READ (11 COMMENTS) »

As diverse as Sweden is, there are a few societal norms that are distinctly Swedish. Understanding a handful of them will hopefully prepare you culturally before you relocate. When you're invited home to a Swede, you better be on time and take your shoes off, writes expat Lola Akinmade-Åkerström. Read more »
Sweden is a country where almost everyone can speak English. So why bother to learn Swedish? Edina Varnagy from Hungary managed with English for a whole year but then found that Swedish could open doors – to a job, a social life and greater understanding. Read more »
"The ice dripped in the winter sun. It was the first day when the light had been intense enough to cause dripping in the sunlight. To hear it was an extraordinary wakeup call. The cycle was happening again as it always does, always will (or so we think). I imagined that on my summer island, the bees..." READ »
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B*llocks. Nothing could be easier. The Swedish-speaking person speaks Swedish. The other person speaks their language.
Done. I should know - I have two bilingual kids, and have hardly given this aspect of their upbringing any thought at all.
What's all the fuss about?
For foreigners as us, I'm strongly convinced every parent should use the language they feel as their own, and they should learn Swedish at school if none of the parents speaks Swedish natively.
English-speaking schools are good for Swedish children or children which came to Sweden when they were too old to learn Swedish.
I don't see the problem they develop the languages to the same level, from my point of view is perfectly fine they develop one language more than the other.
Agreed with the speaking aspect. That is easy. I am teaching my daughter to read and write in English though, rather than to wait for the Swedish school. I had two mixed Swedes in my SFI class, that could speak Swedish like a native but had to take SFI for the reading and writing aspect because their Swedish parent dropped the ball, in my opinion, when they were living abroad. My opinion is that if one is mixed, one should be able to function in both languages like a native. Anything less is a disservice to the child.
Kids can learn anything if the parents follow the rules and stop making excuses. Language requires a stable environment for growth. She's also been reading in both languages since 5.
I also agree. My (swedish) wife and her family only speak Swedish and I speak English to our son. He's still young, but he understands us very well. We'll be sending him to an English Dagis and still undecided on an international school.
We have some Swedish friends who are trying to bring their kids up bilingual. They're only speaking English at home, but neither of them speak English very well. I can see problems in the future with their pigeon-English
WHAT??? And she is working at a language centre of a UNIVERSITY??? Is she speaking from her personal experience with having difficulties talking with her own kids Hungarian, which her name suggests? I would be sad about that.
I speak 3 languages fluently, two more a little bit and can read further 3, my son is treelingual, learning his 4th language - bot bad for a single mom, I guess...
Exactly: what's the fuzz about??
The key is the kid's interest to learn languages - and they just do that naturally, with hardly any effort, if they are in the right, supporting environment, let that be a home or a school.
Say your child's friends are visiting speaking Swedish with your 5 yr old daughter and asking you things in Swedish, such as "Can we go out and play?". Do you answer in Swedish so her friend understands, or keep the "I only speak English with my daughter rule"?
I find this very hard to stick to when there are guests visiting the home and I am practicing my Swedish. It is quite difficult in the middle of a swedish conversation to instantly switch to English and say "yes you can have some apple juice" to my daughter who just asked for it in Swedish.
Did you have this problem when you were trying to learn Swedish?
What's the point of this article. As usual, Peabody winning journalism from The Local.
"Problems arise when one language is significantly overrepresented" ummm, duh!
Indians raise their children with at least 2 languages, three languages in many cases. It's not a big deal to write well and speak well in two languages. Just keep speaking, reading, writing in the languages you want your kids to learn.
my son has gone to swedish school his mother is swedish and i always speak English to him at home and he has no problem reading writing and speaking ..as my oldies back home say he sounds just like me......
hahaha
Then we moved to the states, when he was 1yo. He has developed strongly in both languages, and each tongue gets reinforced in turns by his interactions with family and friends.
Here is what I wondered after your post: They don't call it "mother tongue" for nothing. Our son's bond with his mother dominated his development early on and still does, and must be an important boost to his continued development of his Swedish here in the US. I wonder if bilingualism benefits if the mother provides the foreign tongue?
I certainly think that a bilingual relationship is beautiful and fun, and has benefitted bilingualism in our child. It wasn't easy at the beginning of our relationship though -- there was a lot of smiling and nodding...
My youngest son was a bit behind his sisters. He went to visit Grandma in London for two weeks and came back fluent.
Kids don't learn second languages at home, they catch them.
Compulsory state education has promised to promote the spiritual, moral, cultural, mental, physical and academic development of a child in preparation for adult life - has failed far too many children, particularly national minorities and especially Muslim children. Now the time has come that parents and community should take over the running of their local schools The Local Authority's role should be confined to simply ensuring schools operate within the prevailing legislative framework \(admissions criteria, Special Educational Needs, Community Cohesion, Financial Audit, etc). Parents can perform a better job than the Local Authority because parents have a genuine vested interest. The Local Authority simply cannot be trusted.
There is no end to Forced marriages and honour killings as long as Bilingual Muslim children keep on attending state schools with monolingual non-Muslim teachers. Muslim schools are attractive to Muslim parents because they have better discipline and teaching Islamic values. Bilingual Muslim teachers are role models who understand the needs and demands of their children.
Each and every Muslim child should be in a state funded Muslim school with bilingual Muslim teachers as role model during their developmental periods. There is no place for a non-Muslim child or a teacher in a Muslim school. Bilingual Muslim children need to learn and be well versed in Standard English to follow the National Curriculum and go for higher studies and research to serve humanity. At the same time they need to learn and be well versed in Arabic, Urdu and other community languages in order to keep in touch with their cultural roots and enjoy the beauty of their literature and poetry.
There are hundreds of state and church schools where Muslim children are in majority. In my opinion, all such schools may be designated as Muslim Academies. Muslim children are in majority in schools because native parents remove their children as soon as the number of Muslim children is on the increase. They do not want their children to mix with Muslim or any other migrant children
Iftikhar Ahmad
London School of Islamics Trust
http://www.londonschoolofislamics.org.uk
When I met my first Swedish girlfriend, her English was very rusty since she never had much of a need for it outside watching movies or TV. After being with me for as little as six months she spoke perfect English with a Texas accent (oh yeah, which she still has by the way). When we were in Britain and America, people just assumed she was from Texas and were shocked to find out she was Swedish and had never been to Texas. Anyway, my point is that English is a special case. Its a global language and if your kids get decent instruction in English as a second language they will be capable of handling Uni classes in English and as time goes on will find fewer opportunities to speak Swedish. I would focus on the Swedish since it is already an endangered language which I think needs to be used and not forgotten.
Now in Sweden, the local language took the first place, Catalan was dropped, and I have lots of work to keep French and Spanish alive.
We used the principle of 1 person-1 language, but I had to open up to Spanish, basically deciding some days are Spanish other are French. Additionally I organise one hour long lesson for each of the weak languages every week. Plus the eldr getting Spanish hemspraºk at the school, TV in both languagers on the weekend.
However this is clearly not enough, the strongest language is taking over most of the active communicaiton skills, so I am forced to think about alternative ways to bring them to be using their other languages. Any ideas apart from travelling to Spain and France?
However see the point by EtoileBrilliant. This is my problem as well. I am working hard on my Swedish (to secure a job).
I do not respect any comments put forth by those who say it is easy to speak their mother tongue to their children, and have not bothered themselves to learn Swedish. Of course it is easy to speak your mother tongue to your children when that is all you know!
I totally agree with you. In the swedish/english case, parents should fully stimulate the swedish language skills. Children in most western countries, are exposed to english on a regular basis, so they will be stimulated adequately.
This especially applies if the family is living in Sweden. Its very practical that english has become the global language, but there is no reason for speaking english in public, if one is living in Sweden.
There is a cultural heritage in maintaning the indigenous language. But when one is living in, for instance, the US, maintaning swedish languge will be difficult in the long run.
But it would be a sad thing if every swede and foreigner staying in Sweden abandoned the swedish language, and started solely speaking english for practical purposes.
Just walking around and reading in Stockholm you can see English bleeding into their everyday life.
Oh and Iftikhar_Ahmad, You're completely wrong, Kids should go to school learn about all religions and then decide for themselves whether or not they want to follow a religion or not.
Most religious schools breed intolerance and poorly educated incorrectly based on the fairy tales told in the bible and Qur'an.